When a child goes to kindergarten, it is easy to change his temperament, and he loves to lose his temper and cry and make a big fuss? Is this also true of your children?
In fact, many parents ignore a problem, going to kindergarten is the first time the child enters the society, enters the competitive environment, he is no longer the center of the universe, he repeatedly experiences 3 negative feelings every day: I am not good enough, I am not good, I am not important.
Someone can sing faster than I can, someone eats faster than me, and I'm not good enough. Washing my hands wet my clothes and putting my shoes on backwards, I can't. The toy was snatched away by the child, and the teacher did not see me raise my hand, I did not matter. Depressed, depressed, aggrieved, sad, he accumulated too many negative emotions.
So when the baby comes home, we must do 3 things, 1, chat with him, remember to ask, is there anything good to do today? What's the fun? Is there any good performance? Is there anything you need your mom to help with? Strengthen your child's happy memories, encourage him, affirm him, and let him regain self-confidence. 2, follow the child more, under the rules, try to meet the needs of the child at the first time, so that he feels that he is valued. 3, first play with the child for a while, go to exercise, go to the game, help him release the pressure, forget the unhappiness.
Have you learned? Try it from today onwards, and see if the child has changed.