Tomorrow is the Goddess Day, the major brands are red flag exhibition, gongs and drums, full reduction, free of orders and various promotions are emerging in an endless stream.
And when others are picking lipstick, bags, and brand-name clothing, mothers just want to take the opportunity to take advantage of more milk powder and diapers.
"There is no goddess day, only an endless children's day!"
"It doesn't matter if you are good or not, the child is king!"
For women, giving birth to children is the watershed of life, before becoming a mother, how to wave as you want, after being a mother, life is entangled with the child's and, and the whole heart hangs on the child.
Before giving birth to a baby, it is wild K song 857 everywhere, and after giving birth to a baby, she takes the baby to sleep at home and tells stories;
Before giving birth to a baby, I went to work to make money in order to buy bags, shoes and lipstick, and after giving birth to a baby, I fought for my life for milk powder diapers.
Even when shopping, the thought is: "This baby likes, that is suitable for the baby." "Nutrients, ingredient lists, production dates, manufacturers and whatever, those wise eyes are scanned carefully and clearly.
And when the mother also enjoys the double "happiness" of the beater, when the mother before work to rest, when the mother after the day to punch the clock business, at night also to seamlessly take the baby! From "996", directly evolved to "007".
24 hours a day in addition to work, attendance, eating, with the baby, the rest of the time, not only can not guarantee the length of sleep, but also always nervous, but where the child is a little windy, then sleepy and tired have to get up.
Of course, this is only the tip of the iceberg paid by the mother to take care of the child, if you want to become a competent "old mother" from a "little fairy", you must experience a small white from 0, all the way to fight monsters and upgrade, not only to pay attention to a variety of parenting experts, but also to cook, pharmacist, nutritionist, dessert chef a variety of professional skills.
The mother does not have the skills of a secret agent, but she lives harder than a secret agent!
So for the mother, the goddess day is a floating cloud, in front of the child, the Spring Festival, National Day, Valentine's Day are just another name for Children's Day.
They willingly pour their efforts, patience and energy into their children and families, immersed in the whirlpool of work, housework and baby care every day. The bitterness behind this is not something that can be clearly explained in one or two sentences!
Therefore, fathers should understand the hard work and weakness of their mothers, and take the initiative to take over the work of taking over the children when the mother is tired and tired. Don't say you don't have children, and you haven't seen a woman who is born a mother!
My colleagues have let the child's father participate in child-rearing since confinement, they have divided the work, the colleague takes care of eating and drinking Lasa, the father is responsible for playing and reading, the child is now 4 years old, and he is as close as his parents. So dads have to believe that they have children, no worse than moms!
This Goddess Day, while preparing gifts for mothers, fathers can also let their goddesses take a holiday. Let her take her out of work and housework, give her a space to relax, go shopping with her girlfriends and friends, watch movies, and enjoy a little freedom.
The well-known American writer Joan Anderson once wrote "Good Woman, Go Home" advocated: Mothers must have their own small vacations, even if it is only a small moment, they also need to suspend work and housework, and really leave some time for themselves. Otherwise, in a state of high intensity and anxiety for a long time, mothers will easily have emotional breakdowns and become flammable and explosive, which is very dangerous.
Know that a relaxed and happy mother and a grumpy mother will have a completely different impact on the child.
Ed Tronick, a professor of psychology at the University of Manchester, once did a very famous static face experiment. He asks a mother to interact with the child first, and the child is very happy; then he asks the mother to keep his face expressionless, no matter what the child does, the mother has no emotional response, and finally the child collapses and cries.
The mother is happy, the child's world is clear; the mother is sad, the child's world is gloomy.
Dads have to believe that you give your wife a "holiday of love" that is better than any expensive luxury in the world, go for it! Take the child from your mother's hands and let her become the most relaxed and happy version of yourself!