Some educational studies have found that excellent students must have a learning method that suits them. However, in the process of learning, it is not enough to imitate others, but also to have their own unique learning methods, in order to make themselves control their own learning and make themselves more solid.
Therefore, allowing children to form their own learning style is the key to improving grades, and can increase children's personality charm.
When children go to primary school, they cannot fully realize their potential, that is, children do not learn in a planned way. At this time, it is important to let the child develop good learning habits and find a way to suit their children in the conventional method.
Although this process is not easy, as long as our parents are careful, we will definitely find a learning method suitable for our children, and parents can use the following aspects as a reference.
Develop habits and be wary of depersonalization
It takes skill for children to develop good habits, but if you want to develop good habits fundamentally, you can't rely on skills alone. For example, some people say that a waiter with eight teeth out is the best smile service. You can look in the mirror, it's really beautiful. However, as long as people with some experience know that sometimes such a smile is not actually a joy from the heart, it may also be a fake smile, a sneer, a smirk, etc., is this what we need?
Therefore, the cultivation of learning habits is not only a simple skill, but also a basis for each requirement. When cultivating children's learning habits, parents must have a sincere heart, and they must devote themselves wholeheartedly to find habits that are truly suitable for their children.
Specifically, when cultivating children's habits, parents should take humanities as the core goal, but also pay attention to cultivating children's concepts and emotions, and each good habit should be understood first, and then implemented.
Respect the law, pay attention to the method
The United States has conducted relevant research and found that it takes 21 days to develop habits, but Mr. Zhou Shiyuan, a relevant Chinese researcher, believes that these 21 days are only an average, and people's serious habits are different, the degree of hard work is different, and the time spent is definitely different.
With 21 days as an average, it is safer to record with 1 month, so "cultivating habits is 1 month, but the key is the first 3 days", and Mr. Zhou Shiyuan summarized 6 key points for us to cultivate habits:
(1) Truly understand the importance;
(2) Find the feasibility of implementation;
(3) Make overall arrangements, and then slowly do a good job;
(4) The focus is on the first 1 month;
(5) With the help of others;
(6) Persevere until things are done successfully.
If parents want to help their children develop good learning habits, in addition to the above points, training is more important, and let the children train repeatedly.
For example, children memorize words every night before going to bed, and once they find that the memory effect is better, they must insist on doing so. However, the content can be changed at will, and you can memorize English articles or sentences. No matter what you remember, as long as you persist at this stage and continue to strengthen it, you will definitely be able to develop good habits.
Guide correctly and accompany your child to persevere
To form a good habit, the process is very difficult, and many children give up halfway because they do not have self-control. At this time, parents need to help, here are some principles that must be observed:
(1) Communication. Parents should be very aware of their children's needs and let their children know that everyone has what they should do and want to do, and parents have their own things to do, just like children have to do homework.
(2) Formulation of regulations. Every habit takes time to achieve, if the child is used to it, it is impossible to become an independent child in an instant, so take it slowly, parents do not let go all at once. After talking to your child, you can apply the discussion method and make some rules with your child, and then parents and children must follow them.
(3) Be sure to stick to your own principles. After the two parties reach an agreement, parents must implement the regulations and cannot give up halfway.
(4) Reward principle. In addition to fulfilling their commitments to their children, parents should feel that their children are trying to improve every day, and then properly praise their children.
Habit is a tenacious force, and it plays an important role in the development of life. Therefore, parents must cultivate their children with good learning habits from an early age.
However, children's good habits are to be developed slowly, and parents must take the greatest responsibility during this period. It should be reminded that in the process of helping our children develop learning habits, we parents should pay attention to exercising their children's independent ability.
If a child is dependent on his homework, then he will also have a tendency to rely on other aspects of his life. But in fact, children have their own thoughts, and they also need to act according to their own ideas.
Therefore, parents should not feel that their children cannot be independent and protect them everywhere, they should learn to let go appropriately, try to let the children do what they should do, and let the children's abilities be better cultivated, so as to help cultivate children's good learning habits.
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