In the morning to send Xiaobao to school, it was late, immediately closed the school door, met his classmate's mother, I said to her: "Every day is so late", my son immediately turned back to me and said " Can't say this."
I think about it, it is true that you can't tell others in front of your child that he is not. Most of our Chinese parents are more modest, and when facing the praise of others for their children, they often say: "Wherever, there is no no," as far as possible to find some bad places for him to say, are you also the same kind of parents? I don't know if we do this kind of approach will make the child feel that he is not doing well, not doing a good job, so that he can not get affirmation, so that the sense of value will be lower and lower, the child's self-confidence from an early age is to give parents a little affirmation and encouragement, if the long-term suppression of him, in the end he will become a little self-confidence.
The right thing to do is to politely say "thank you" when someone praises your child. Have you learned?