"Son, you can have a long snack", after watching this father's complaint, 99% of netizens laughed
01
The day before yesterday, I was lying down looking at my phone
Suddenly, in my son's class group, someone sent a message
When I opened it, I was completely frightened
I saw a boy's small palm, which looked dark and green
Looking closely at the information in the group, it turned out to be another boy who accidentally poked the refill into it while playing
Looking at this scene, for a while, I really had mixed feelings
I couldn't help but have a headache for the breeders of these little divine beasts
Afterwards, I discussed this with my son
As a result, my son told me that this troublesome classmate often poked people with a refill
It will also dangle in front of the eyes of the students
My son's words made me sweat coldly, what if I poked my eyes! , and it's horrible!
So I reminded my son to pay attention to safety at school
Don't do that
Honestly, as a boy's dad
I thought I was big enough
But in fact, I am often frightened by my own son,
Let's just say that every time I go to pick him up and drop him off at school
Every time I watched him cross the road like a joy, I couldn't help but feel a tightness in my heart
It will be reminded every time
"Slow down, pay attention to the traffic."
But my son didn't care, and would answer me perfunctorily every time
"I look at it"
At other times, he had crossed the road and walked into the school gate, but suddenly rushed out and said
"Daddy, my kettle"
After saying that, I often touch my bag, and then I will continue to shout
"It's over here, gone"
It's really reassuring to watch
I remember one time, I picked him up at noon to eat, and it turned out to be a little tight
Before he had put his shoes on, he hurried to drive the elevator, and finally the people went in
One shoe was still outside, so he jumped out and pressed the elevator again
As for the door of my house, nine times out of ten, I couldn't remember to close it for you
Many times he was gone, and when I went out to take a look, the door was still wide open
As for dressing, it is even more worrying
I don't know how to take off my morning coat at noon in the summer, and I am always breathless and sweaty and wearing two clothes
There kept shouting
"It's so hot, it's too hot."
In the winter, he often likes to take off his coat while exercising
As a result, when the exercise is over, they are often still open-wearing clothes, and the whole person is frozen and shivering and does not know how to put on the coat again
As for the dark wounds and inexplicable dirty things on the body
That is even more unclear, unclear, do not know when to make it
I was so angry that I said him every time
"Son, can we live to get a snack?"
02
In the impression of many people, boys are grinning and worrying
As a result, many people feel that boys are thick-skinned and strong
Emotionally, we don't need to worry about it
I would like to say that adults who think like this are really very wrong
We have to worry too much about the feelings of boys
The first problem is that they don't express themselves
I remember not long ago in the community baoma group
One mother said her boy was too stupid, angry or anxious
He can't express himself, always loses his temper with anger, and even punches his head many times
It was funny and funny to see her
So the education son said
"If you want to cry, you can cry, if you have any grievances, you can tell your mother, don't hurt yourself like this"
Indeed, compared to those delicate and kind, little girls who like to express themselves
Boys' ability to express emotions is really exciting
So as a parent, when we find our boys
Always irritable, or restless
Please be sure to be a little more patient with them
Never scold your child, but learn to calmly guide your child
Let him recognize his emotions and learn to express himself correctly
Take my son, for example, from a young age
I have stressed it to him countless times
"Dad told you that boys can cry too, so if you want to cry, cry, you don't have to force yourself."
So my son often cries when he wants to
Even if relatives said that a boy his age was still crying, he would not feel ashamed
And every time he vents like this, he will be very relaxed
Under my follow-up guidance, I will quickly find the reason for my bad mood and strive to correct it
03
Some time ago, at the Spring Festival party, the child's mother told me several times
"I recently found out that adopting a son is also very worry-free"
I didn't believe it, and the child's mother told me
"Get dressed"
Indeed, the Spring Festival party
The daughter of my cousin always dressed up before going out
Some also have to wear makeup, although they are only a few years old, but they pay great attention to their own image
On the contrary, my son is much more troublesome
Each time before we could pack up, the child was already dressed and waiting for us at the door to leave
Sometimes I urge impatiently
"Hurry up, I'm already fine"
Once, a few of our brothers and sisters took their children to the mall to play
As a result, a few little girls looked here and chose there
When my cousin bought each of them a pair of small leather shoes
A few little princesses were not satisfied, forcing the cousin to go to the salesman to return and let the children choose again
However, they are all "picky monsters", watching for two hours, they did not choose their favorite
My son is different
Walking into the first store, at the suggestion of the child's mother, I bought a pair of shoes
After finishing, he proudly showed a few young ladies his shoes
I followed, Emma, it was so ugly
I couldn't help but feel sorry for my son and sighed in my heart
"Son, you can grow a snack, don't let your mother fool you"
Afterwards, the child's mother told me
Our son is too able to toss, or dress comfortably is the most important, ugly is not ugly is not important
It made so much sense that I had to give in
And the son is very happy to wear his new shoes to go out to exercise every day, and he does not pay attention to whether the shoes look good or not
However, compared with the meticulousness and love of girls, boys also have a big disadvantage in dressing
That is, they will soon break up
Parents are also advised to be young
Don't pay too much attention to the brand, as long as the child is comfortable, it doesn't matter if the price is cheap
And when the child is older, he naturally pays attention to the image
And when you buy something, you will take care of it
04
To tell the truth, watching my son grow up day by day, it is really indispensable to worry about it
For example, they always have endless questions
Like my son would chase me every day all kinds of "what", "why"
I unconsciously learned a lot of knowledge
Although the harvest is very rewarding
But every time my son asked me endlessly, or gave me various popular science explanations for a certain question
I still get a little upset
But after all, he was born to himself
So I had to calm down again and again to communicate with him and satisfy their curiosity
Of course, these little divine beasts actually have times when they become angels
At that time, you just feel it
"It's so cute, my son is so cute"
For example, when you are sick, they will suddenly care about you and pour you a glass of water
Or intimately bring you a medicine box, if you lie on the sofa, they will go to get a pillow for a while, a little quilt for a while, in short, put you in a comfortable place, they will be at ease
And when you go to work for a day and walk into the house exhausted
At this time, he will run over again and bring you slippers
Chase after your father and mother's shouts and don't listen
I remember one time I went home and waited for a long time and didn't see my son coming
As a result, the son followed the child's mother back to his hometown
How much I missed my son that day, only I knew
In addition, the son does not like to take revenge, for the mistakes of his parents and the occasional tantrum
They always grin big and don't pay attention to it
As long as you bow your head, the child will choose to forgive you for the first time
In fact, whether it is raising boys or girls, there are pros and cons
For parents, the most important thing is to be patient!
Okay, that's it for today, what's the fun about your boy? Feel free to leave a comment in the comments section below
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