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Japanese entrepreneur Kazuo Inamori once wrote a book called "Living Law", in which he recorded such a past event:
At that time, he first entered the workplace, due to the impact of the financial crisis, he had to face the reality of layoffs after less than a year of work, after being included in the layoff list, he cried for a night, but sad to be sad, there is still a month before the layoffs, the work at hand can not be done, so he continues to open the computer, take out the keyboard to work.
Colleagues know that he is going to be laid off, embarrassed to ask him to hand over the work, but he takes the initiative to take over the work, does not allow himself to do nothing, waste of the company's resources.
Unexpectedly, after a month, he stayed, and the boss admitted: Like him, there will never be too many employees with a strong sense of responsibility!
It can be seen that it is the sense of responsibility of Kazuo Inamori that saved his future, so it is very necessary to cultivate a sense of responsibility for a person, and for children, parents should be cultivated from an early age, which is also a compulsory course for every parent. To do this well, parents can refer to these methods.
1. Attach importance to responsibility
Many parents actually do not pay much attention to the cultivation of children's sense of responsibility, and few parents will take the cultivation of responsibility as the first priority of educating their children, they are more concerned about how their children's studies are, often only know how to tutor their children's homework, care about their children's performance rankings, but ignore the importance of responsibility.
In fact, the sense of responsibility is closely related to the child's achievements and future:
Children who lack a sense of responsibility will think that learning is a matter for parents and teachers, and they will always be passive in the face of learning;
When they grow up, they will also think that their parents should provide food and drink for themselves, and the "old people" will be born.
Therefore, we parents should first pay attention to the cultivation of a sense of responsibility from the heart, so that children feel that there is weight on their shoulders and responsibility in their hearts.
2. Weaken your own ability
What is the ability to weaken oneself?
It is to let children understand from an early age that parents are not omnipotent, parents also have tired and tired times, and many things need his commitment and help.
For example, when you come home from work, you can tell your child that he is tired from work and needs to rest on the couch for a while, and ask him to pour you a glass of water.
Many parents like to establish an omnipotent image in front of their children, so they have taken care of too many things that belong to their children, as soon as the child is born, the parents are held in their arms and cared for, but as the child grows up, the parents still can't change the habit of helping the child everywhere.
Therefore, weakening his own ability is to help the child distinguish what is his own responsibility, help the child to "wean" psychologically, let him understand that he is also an indispensable part of the family, so as to avoid the child's future responsibility to the parents, push to the society.
3. Assign tasks to children from an early age
Cultivating a sense of responsibility in children can start with assigning housework:
Children all need a specific task to act on, and without a specific task, they don't know what to do and won't be engaged enough.
You can make a list of chores, let the child choose what he likes to do, and then set some small rewards after completing the goal, such as pocket money, snacks, entertainment activities, etc., so that they can understand the hard work of mom and dad to make money and support the family while participating in housework, and they will have a greater sense of accomplishment after completion.
Cultivating a sense of responsibility should start from the doll, educating children to take responsibility is to tell them that life is not arbitrary, and that only by abiding by responsibility can we truly grow and harvest happiness.
Well, that's it for today's sharing. This article is original by [Lemon Psychology Classroom], pay attention to me, take you to increase knowledge together!
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