It is undeniable that in the process of educating children, it is inevitable to encounter various problems, and even a series of contradictions will occur, and if the handling method is too extreme, it will only have a negative impact. The following three situations are likely to ruin your child's mental health.
First, often yell at children. Yelling may only be a minute, but the harm to the child is very large, which will make the child feel that what he does is useless, afraid of making a mistake, and forming an inferiority psychology.
Second, often quarrel. Every fierce quarrel is hurting the child's heart. Violent parents will only raise violent children, and unstable families will deprive children of a sense of security, making children's personalities anxious, suspicious, and inferior to extremes.
Third, excessive blows. You look at others, you look at yourself. Saying too much of this will only make the child timid, clingy, unconfident, and in a state of denial for a long time, and even frustrate the child's self-esteem and self-confidence.
Parents should be more patient with their children and less accusatory.