Today, I watched a video released by Jiangxi Tourism Radio and felt that it refreshed my lower limit. Look at the title "Son is picky eaters and does not eat, and the mother only burns what she loves to eat." Netizen: Well done! ”
Quite eye-catching, at the beginning I was quite applauded by this mother, I think that children should not be used to picky eating, nutritional balance is the guarantee of children's more vigorous growth. But when I glanced at the food on the table and the child's painful voice, it only made me think that this mother was an irresponsible mother, and there was no lower limit. The meals on a table are probably only the rice in the children's bowl and the green vegetable soup in the middle of the table are not spicy, and the rest are all spicy dishes.
Doesn't this mother know that some people really can't eat spicy food? Do you like to eat spicy vegetables and others should also like to eat, even if the child is born of their own taste may not be the same as the parents.
Why? I myself am a person who does not like to eat spicy, it is not that I can't eat it, but after eating it, I will feel very uncomfortable, like friends who like to eat peppers and spicy flavors say that the aroma and pleasure of eating spicy, I do not feel at all. So I myself basically do not eat spicy, see such a table of "hearty" meals, although there are fish and meat, but look at the peppers on the top, basically can only hehe.
I remember that there were friends who would eat chili pepper allergies, and even went to the hospital, because of their physique, they never ate chili peppers again, and everyone could understand it.
This mother's so-called only burning her own love to eat, I am afraid that only burning her own favorite spicy food, for people who do not like to eat spicy is no longer a problem of picky eating, but the mother is too harsh to impose her own preferences on the child.
If the dishes on the table are not spicy, or spicy and not spicy, can let netizens see that the child is really picky eaters, then there is nothing wrong with the parents' approach, but the netizens see only the problem of peppers and not the problem of picky eating. Using the picky eater to cover up the problem of taste is obviously wrong, and people can't help but wonder what this mother thinks.
Now it's really for the traffic, for the red all kinds of bottomless hype, of course, maybe this mother is not like this, but this is still a bit against the norm, people have to doubt.
In fact, some netizens said it very well, why adults are not picky eaters, because they only do what they like to eat. And why is the child picky eater, is not that the adult does not make the child what he likes to eat, if the child likes to eat, will he be picky?
I think that the child does not eat, that does not eat, does not eat meat or does not like to eat vegetables, or even refuses to eat is the real picky eater, rather than getting a table of spicy dishes of the same taste, just say that the child is picky eaters, try to ask if we add a lot of vinegar to each dish, will this mother eat? In fact, it is the same concept as all spicy.
For children who are picky eaters, the cause of anorexia should be found. It is not something that can be solved by blindly doing what parents like to eat. I remember a nutrition expert, once said that for picky eaters, but pay more attention to cooking food, such as special processing and cooking of some foods they do not like to eat, but in the color and taste is best to attract them, the taste is light, less use of condiments, no spicy and irritating food.
Note that this expert is talking about not having spicy and irritating foods. Made a table of spicy dishes, is this a picky eater?
This friend suggested that for these dishes, we should use more steaming and boiling methods, and try to use less fried cooking.
Although it is not known whether the child's picky eating is caused by the food being too spicy, the sensory perception in the video is that the child's picky eating is caused by too much chili pepper.