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In the spring school season| parents to do this "9 questions" and "10 no questions", children happy to go to kindergarten

When the baby comes home from kindergarten, parents ask what helps the child get better and better? What problems are not conducive to children's growth and development?

Jingxue Xiaobian warm tips: master the skills and methods, use "9 questions" and "10 do not ask", to help children easily pass the kindergarten period, let's take a look!

In the spring school season| parents to do this "9 questions" and "10 no questions", children happy to go to kindergarten

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About nine questions

NO.1 You can ask: What did you help the teacher/child do today?

After asking questions, parents can guide the child to start the "recall" mode, try to comb through the experience of getting along with teachers and children throughout the day with him, help teachers and children, let him enhance his self-confidence and sense of honor, and love to go to kindergarten.

NO.2 You can ask: Who is your good friend? Why do you like him?

Raise this question, consciously let the child communicate and communicate with the children in the kindergarten, and find their own good friends. At the same time, let him know the advantages of children, establish values, and strengthen children's memories of kindergarten advantages.

NO.3 I can ask: What interesting things happened in the class today?

When the child answers, parents should not rush to evaluate, but should pay attention to listening and guiding the child to express their views. After the child has finished expressing, discuss with him more, which can not only increase the understanding of the child, but also convey the correct views and values in the discussion.

NO.4 Can you ask: Is there anything you don't understand that you need help from mom and dad?

This problem can make the child feel that the parents are very concerned about you, and the problem can be raised at any time, so as to get the child's trust, help him open his heart, and no longer resist the kindergarten because of various problems that cannot be handled.

NO.5 You can ask: What kind of game did you do with your children today?

Such a question is specific and clear, the child knows how to answer, and has the desire to answer. The more children say, it helps parents understand their children's situation in kindergarten, and at the same time stimulates their children's interest in kindergarten.

NO.6 Can you ask: Is it good to teach your mother about the little paper boat you are new today?

Discuss topics of interest with your child with specific, detailed questions, and slowly, your child will enjoy sharing a day's life in the kindergarten with their parents.

NO.7 You can ask: Is it a long skill today?

Ask your child if he can pull the lock and tie his shoelaces by himself? Guiding children to establish their own sense of growth is to stimulate children's internal energy, rather than simply asking children to change.

NO.8 I can ask: What story did the teacher tell you today?

If you want to know what your child learns in kindergarten, you can avoid the word "learning", intuitively mention some specific questions such as "what paintings were drawn today" and "what crafts were done today", indirectly and skillfully understanding the children's life in the kindergarten, and also allowing children to consolidate the learning content.

NO.9 Can you ask: Did you say thank you to the teacher today?

Eliminate the hostility of children to the teacher at the beginning of the opening of the kindergarten due to incompatibility, let the child know that the teacher is very hard, the teacher is helping him grow, let the child know how to be grateful, and learn to say thank you.

In the spring school season| parents to do this "9 questions" and "10 no questions", children happy to go to kindergarten

Don't ask about ten

NO.1 Don't ask: Did someone bully you in kindergarten?

The word "bullying" suddenly puts the child in opposition to other children. There will be some run-ins and disputes between children, but they will not remember revenge, or give children space to solve themselves.

NO.2 Don't ask: Did you cry today?

In fact, after the parents left, the children performed very well, and the rich group activities occupied the children's attention, and gradually helped the children adapt to separation anxiety. But the mother's words are a psychological hint, suggesting that "as long as the mother cries, she will be soft-hearted", so that the child will not want to go to kindergarten.

NO.3 Don't ask: Did the teacher criticize you?

The teacher will help the child to complete the routine training on the basis of the child's adaptation. Parents asking such a question can easily become an excuse for their children to do various things, or it will make children feel burdened and lack self-confidence, and children should be encouraged to communicate with teachers more.

NO.4 Don't ask: Are you doing well today?

Such questions are more general, children do not know how to answer, do not know how to measure their own performance, often to the parents of the answer is "good performance", "good". Parents should give their children more positive and specific guidance.

NO.5 Don't ask: Did a child grab your toy?

Each child's growth environment and personality are different, parents should help their children make friends together, or share interesting things in the class with their children, so that children gradually form a concept of "good friends" and look forward to the life of kindergarten.

In the spring school season| parents to do this "9 questions" and "10 no questions", children happy to go to kindergarten

NO.6 Don't ask: What did you learn in kindergarten today?

It is difficult for kindergarten children to answer this question clearly, do not challenge the child's language organization ability, do not put pressure on the child, so as not to cause the child to be bored with school.

NO.7 Don't ask: Does the teacher like you? Did the teacher praise you today?

Kindergarten children do not understand the concept of "like", how to distinguish it? This is actually a parent's distrust of the teacher. Kindergarten teachers will take care of every child seriously, and parents must give full trust in order to give children a full sense of security.

NO.8 Don't ask: What kind of food do you eat in kindergarten? Does it taste good?

The child has just returned to kindergarten and is still in the adaptation period, during which the appetite may be poor. The teacher will gradually help the child to be independent and adapt to the collective life, and will also carefully observe the child, properly help the child to eat, and parents do not have to worry about the child's poor eating.

NO.9 Don't ask: Do you like kindergarten?

The child may be a little anxious when he first starts kindergarten, and if the child's answer to such a question may be negative, it will not affect his mood well. We can have a positive impact on children and help them accept and adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible.

NO.10 Don't ask: Which teacher do you like? Which teacher took you to play?

When the child returns to kindergarten, he will have some discomfort when he first faces the new environment, without the care of his family, and the most worrying thing is the relationship between the child and the teacher, whether the child can like the teacher and have an attachment relationship with the teacher.

When the child first enters the kindergarten, because the people and things in the kindergarten have replaced their families, the child has an aversion to all the things in the kindergarten. If the parent keeps stressing which teacher she likes, it is a hint that she wants to be more with the teacher she likes, and the child is reluctant to contact other teachers.

In the spring school season| parents to do this "9 questions" and "10 no questions", children happy to go to kindergarten

| summary |

Rather than asking children what they "eat" and "cry or not cry" in kindergarten, children's feelings, growth, and care for others are the aspects that really need parents to care about.

"Parent-child communication" seems to be just a few simple and ordinary words, but in fact, it has an important impact on the growth of children.

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