"Eating and drinking Lasa" is the most basic ability of people, and it can be said that in people's minds, these "skills" do not need to be trained, they are born.
But in fact, these things are really not easy for the baby, such as the toilet, do not teach the child, the child really can not do well.
I remember when my little nephew was in kindergarten before, on the first day, the teacher called her sister-in-law, who took a set of children's clothes and went to the kindergarten.
Wait until the sister-in-law came back to ask a question to know, the original little nephew went to kindergarten, he would not go to the toilet, the result of the toilet for half a day did not take off the pants, and finally pulled in the crotch of the pants, the teacher found out that after the hurried call to the sister-in-law, let the sister-in-law take the child's clothes to the school to change the child.
The impact of this incident on the child is still very large, not only delaying the child's schooling, but also delaying the teacher's class, and also delaying the sister-in-law's work, but also affecting the child's mental health.
After that, because many children in the kindergarten where the little nephew is in have similar situations, the teacher attaches great importance to the problem of children's toilet training, and lets parents guide their children to develop good habits of going to the toilet.
Of course, parents are also very cooperative, after all, no parent wants their children to have the same "glorious" experience as their little nephews.
So, when to start training your baby to urinate properly? Many parents are not very clear about this.
In fact, when the baby is about a week and a half, you can start training your baby to defecate, too early and too late is not good, this time is just right.
Because before the baby is one and a half years old, the bladder and other urinary and urinary systems have not yet fully developed, and they do not have the ability to go to the toilet, and if it is late, the baby will form a dependence on diapers and not wet, unwilling to take off the urine and defecation.
However, the growth and development of each child is different, and parents can not only look at the age of the child, but also rush to train the child to go to the toilet.
This is really urgent, parents may wish to find the right time to train their children, so that they can play a multiplier effect with half the effort.
For example, when the baby's leg strength is relatively strong, and he can well control his ability to squat and stand up, indicating that the baby already has the ability to urinate and defecate, parents can start training.
However, different parents use different methods when teaching their children to go to the toilet, but no matter how different, they are indispensable to "two demonstrations and four trainings", because this is the core factor of teaching children to go to the toilet.
● Two demonstrations, the baby imitates and learns quickly
Teach children to go to the toilet, we must pay attention to choosing a way that is easier for children to accept, and demonstration is a good behavior, because the child's imitation ability is strong, and the correct demonstration can make the child get a clearer and clearer understanding.
Of these demonstrations, two are more important:
Demonstrate the toilet scene for your child
When children are young, they are all in the diapers, so there is no awareness of toilet scenes such as toilets and toilets in their minds.
Therefore, parents first need to show their children the scene of going to the toilet, let the child know the role of the toilet, what the toilet is for, etc., and also let the child understand the role of some equipment in the toilet, so that the child can understand the toilet.
Of course, during the demonstration, in order to facilitate the child's understanding, you can use real scenes, picture book scenes, toy scenes, etc. to assist the demonstration, so that the children can better understand.
Demonstrate the toilet process for your child
If you want your child to learn to go to the toilet on their own, then a whole set of toilet procedures needs to be shown to children.
If the family is a son's, it can be demonstrated by the father, and if the family is a daughter, it can be demonstrated by the mother.
Of course, in order to let children see the toilet process more fully, parents can also use some toy props, picture book stories, and children's teaching videos to assist in demonstration.
Note that the purpose of the demonstration is to let the child really understand the steps of the whole toilet, as long as this is achieved, then our demonstration is qualified, as to whether the child has the ability to go to the toilet, we need to train.
● Four trainings to improve your baby's progress in learning to go to the toilet
When training children to go to the toilet, there are also several important training items, and parents must pay attention.
Train your child's awareness of toilet places
If you want your child to go to the toilet smoothly, you need to let your child know where you can go to the toilet. For example, boys should enter the men's toilet, girls should enter the women's toilet, what is the sign of the men's and women's toilet, find a toilet at home, etc., so that the child knows where to go to solve his own poop when he is in different occasions.
Train your child's ability to put on and take off clothes on their own
For example, when the little nephew goes to the toilet, it is not that the little nephew does not know where to go to poop, but the little nephew cannot take off his pants after going to the toilet, which eventually leads to the situation of pulling the pants, so parents must train their children's ability to wear and take off clothes independently.
In ordinary life, parents should actively guide children to put on and take off clothes independently, usually get up in the morning, let children put on and take off clothes when they go to bed at night, tell children how to button, how to pull zippers, how to take off pants, etc., be patient, give children encouragement, and let children quickly learn to put on and take off clothes.
Train your child's ability to wipe your ass properly
Wiping farts seems simple, but in fact, it is not simple, many children in the autonomous wipe of farts, if not trained, it is not good at all.
Therefore, when training children to wipe their farts, pay attention to these points:
It is necessary to train children to correctly "find" the position to be wiped, because when the child rubs the fart in the early stage, he cannot find the position to wipe. When wiping farts, you should wipe from front to back, and you can't rub them randomly, otherwise: one may cause genital infections, and the other is that it may not be clean, and the paste is everywhere. It is necessary for children to exert force correctly and correctly judge the thickness of the paper, so as to avoid the situation of "scratching the paper" and causing some unnecessary hygiene problems.
Train your child's hygiene awareness after going to the toilet
After going to the toilet, parents also need to train their children's hygiene awareness, such as flushing the toilet after going to the toilet, washing hands, etc., so that one can maintain the hygiene of the toilet, and the other is to let the child form a good hygiene habit.
In addition, parents also need to pay attention to training children's hygiene awareness when going to the toilet, so that children know that the floor of the toilet, as well as other equipment may be dirty, do not touch the floor of the toilet when defecating, especially in public toilets.
Write at the end
Toilet this matter seems very simple, but for children is really not simple, parents should be serious, patient, step by step to teach children to go to the toilet, so that children can form the correct toilet habits, will achieve "toilet freedom", reduce some embarrassing appearance.
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