I learned to use a small toilet myself, but I've recently started peeing my pants again. ~~>_
Why do children always think of peeing after they have finished peeing?
——The child does not defecate outside, and he has to hold it every time, but there is always a time when he can't hold it...
Regarding these things about children going to the toilet independently, I believe that many mothers have the same feeling, this is not, there is a mother who asked For help from Teacher Li Pu!
The child is 3 years and 2 months old, originally planned to start the spring semester, I sent him to kindergarten, I have done a long time of toilet training, the child can urinate and defecate for a while, but recently he always pulled the stool in his pants, sad us.
Children around the age of 3 are basically at the age of kindergarten. Before entering the kindergarten, we not only have to help children learn to eat, dress, make friends, etc., but also a very important point is to help children learn to urinate and urinate on their own, which is not only related to the child's self-care ability, can help them better adapt to kindergarten life, but also help them build self-confidence.
Basically, when the child is about 1 and a half years old, we can start to train them in the toilet, but the toilet training is a relatively long process, and after the child learns, there may be occasional behavior regression for such and such reasons, which requires the patience and understanding of parents. To solve the problem that the child has, we must first find out the reason why the child pulls his pants.
The child plays too focused
In general, children can learn to control their own bowel movements when they are 2 to 2.5 years old. Children around the age of 3, just learn to go to the toilet independently, when they play too focused or too tired, their brain nerve center ability to process information, muscle control ability inside and outside the anus will decline, and then ignore their own defecation, it is possible to pull pants.
Parents are too strict
If parents are too strict with their children's toilet training or when their children occasionally accidentally urinate in their pants, parents criticize them and show impatience, and the children will feel nervous and psychologically stressed. This can disrupt the child's process of mastering the skill of controlling bowel and urination, causing them to undo their pants more often.
Environmental changes
Parents should pay attention to observe whether the child is familiar with the environment every time the child defecates in the pants, and whether there are strange things in the environment that cause the child's nervousness.
For children's occasional behavior regression (pulling up pants), parents do not have to be too anxious, be more patient and careful, and help them exercise their ability to go to the toilet independently. The key now is that we parents should teach them to express themselves in words and constantly demonstrate them to their children.
Capture your child's bowel signals in a timely manner
Parents usually carefully observe the changes in children's expressions and behaviors and understand their "baby language". Before the child has a bowel movement, he may have these manifestations: farting, holding his breath, reddening his face, looking at him in a daze, and flicking the corners of his mouth to the sides.
At this time, parents quickly asked the children if they wanted to defecate, and then took them to sit on the toilet to defecate. At the same time, parents can also make a "hmmm" sound, so that children can associate the sound of "mmm" with defecation, and gradually establish a conditioned reflex of defecation, so that the general child can discharge the stool.
Teach your child to use language to express their intentions
Children over 3 years old can express their thoughts in simple language, and when observing that children have a desire to defecate, parents should guide and encourage them to say their needs to defecate and seek help from adults.
Tell the child that if you want to pee or poop, tell the adults around you: I want to defecate, the adults will help solve, otherwise the pants are dirty and it will be very uncomfortable. In this way, we constantly remind the child to understand and express his needs in words and can consciously do it.
Give your child the right demonstration and demonstration
Every time the family goes to the bathroom, they can repeat to the child: I am going to pee, I am going to defecate. If the child is interested, parents can take the child to relieve defecation and help the child to defecate regularly and regularly every day, every day, to help them establish the conditioned reflex of defecation.
Give your child enough patience and understanding
The cultivation of toilet ability takes a long time, during which children may have behavior regression, and parents should not be anxious. Even if the child pulls the stool into the pants, do not blame and laugh at them, but comfort and understand them, otherwise it will make the child who feels uncomfortable because of the pants pull more pressure.
Kindly help the child change into clean clothes, let them know that pulling pants will stain the clothes, but also make them uncomfortable, and then tell the child to tell the adult when he wants to defecate in the future, the adult will help him, so that the child has no psychological pressure and is more receptive.
Mom and Dad, I believe that through the joint efforts of you and your child, your child will be able to learn to go to the toilet independently!