I have been looking for problems from myself, and I have repeatedly tried to control my temper, but the child does not cooperate! You take a step back and he goes further, challenging your bottom line again and again, to be honest the child is not easy and needs to understand. Is it easy for adults? There are old and young, the pressure of life is so great, some trivial troubles all day, coupled with the son of the rebellious period, he is forced to become the kind of person he does not want to be the most, his temper is getting bigger and bigger, sometimes shouting at the child and scolding him twice, saying something very ugly. Despite repeated restraint, sometimes I can't help it.
When I was a child, I especially hated my parents because there were always some small things that were either beaten or scolded, the homework would not write my questions, the name would not be written wrongly, scolded, especially once our teachers did not teach but let us write some pre-study homework in advance The teacher did not write clearly, and the result was that it was another scolding to write where there was no teaching. Now at best, I am not very willing to talk to my parents, because they think that everything I have been scolded by them is also my fault, one thing makes our relationship worse for a while before returning to its usual appearance, I was beaten by my mother, I did not fight back just to block it because from childhood to adulthood it was not to hit my head or the hanger to smoke me, I just blocked it and even thought it was my fault, I should not eat I played the phone but they hit me I was blocking a hand and did not say anything is my fault, I should not fight back, Fortunately, I don't care much about me now, and if I still scold at every turn like before, I don't want to go home.
Let's say that raising small animals, the child is only responsible for playing, eating and drinking are all adults, taking care of the child also has to take care of his dog, adults are not as good as dogs. How much you hate adults, just see if you will become such an adult in the future, I hope that you can treat your children well when you grow up and become the parents you once thought you wanted.
Then please ask, the child only wants to eat, drink and have fun, and does not want anything. Then we can only watch and follow him. Such articles are rare and harmful to others. We all came here when we were young, and the little trees didn't slip straight to see if there was a fence. Therefore, the premise of everyone being respected is to do personnel first, and students should focus on learning.
Both husband and wife do not like children, parents forced to have children, after giving birth grandparents do not care, just give birth. The child is now ten years old, and he really can't like it, let alone how many children treat their parents as enemies, and how many children are the enemies of their parents.
Respect for children can not be spoiled, such as raising pets, the building is really inappropriate, especially for people with a particularly developed sense of smell, cats, dogs and dogs are smelly, children want to raise, adults have to follow the busy work? A child can't even take care of himself, plus a cat and dog to take care of, considering the physical strength of adults? I really like that cats and dogs can grow up to live alone, and children should also understand adults, rather than asking for them.
Aren't half the children who love their parents?! Loving children doesn't mean giving whatever he wants. Abundance is not just a substance. You love him and he can feel it. Instead of showing him TV just to play with his phone. Buy him candy for his meal. To love him is to clearly tell right and wrong, what is the bottom line. But corporal punishment is not required. Parents should apologize for their mistakes. If you want your child to be what kind of person, you have to try to be what kind of person. Children are a mirror for parents. Words are not as good as teaching by example.
How to say it, educating children has no formula, no master key, and relying on an article to solve it is itself dogmatism. It is the respect for people, and it is extremely difficult to truly respect an adult in ordinary life. The most error-prone aspect of chicken soup for the soul is to put the reader in the position of a gentleman and sage.
Indeed, you can't treat children simply and rudely, and use your own position and way of thinking to ask children to do what they do and live. Parents love their children, that is, the way needs to change, hurt the child for a long time but do not know that it is the ignorance and selfishness of the parents, can the child not blame or hate? Children are independent individuals with their own preferences, and doing things that are contrary to morality and ethics in not doing bad things can allow them to have their own ideas. In short, how to be a parent is a lifelong compulsory course.
Children should not hate their parents, and parents should indeed reflect. Originally, he was a house slave, a car slave, a kanu, and he was still born; he obviously changed cattle into horses in society, and after giving birth to a child, he continued to change cattle and horses for others, so why bother? What family inheritance, family graves are not allowed to build, after sleeping thoroughly to buy a cemetery, no one pays money or even sleeps, who knows who you are, less birth, no birth will not have so much hate.
Why do children say that parents say no, because from the perspective of parents, it is really not OKAY, such as raising pets, how many children can take care of personally? Most of them are lost to parents to increase the workload of parents, originally make money to support the family, raise children is busy enough, add a pet, really no time and no energy "always feel that the child is not OK" This is my real feeling after raising a child, one thing taught countless times can not learn, I am an acute child, intellectually I know that the child is still young, learning things slowly is normal, but that frustration really makes me feel that my child is stupid and stupid and will never work The child is the first time to be a child, the parents are also the first time to be a parent, the parents are not saints, How many people can control themselves to be rational and sober forever? Everyone learns from their mistakes, and parenting is the common growth of parents and children.