The son is reluctant to learn, and the father's approach is worth pondering...
Today's children are too happy to experience the pain of life, parents in order to let their children learn well, always try to provide conditions, however, there are still many children are not willing to learn.
No, a 13-year-old boy in Cangzhou, Hebei Province, told his father that he did not want to study.
When my father heard this, he didn't say a word, and since he didn't want to study, I would go to work to support myself. So, I took my children to the construction site and started a part-time career.
The work of moving bricks at the construction site should be done as long as there is strength, and the father and his children start from the most basic construction site to move bricks, and they are particularly serious about saying, Come on, son.
On the first day, at first, my son still felt quite fresh, did not have to go to class, did not have to do homework, and could still play. But when he moved the bricks for a day, not only was the whole person tired, but also very dirty.
At this time, my father didn't say anything, anyway, you don't study, you always have to support yourself, continue to move bricks. After a few days like this, my son could not stay up any longer.
Looking at his dirty son, the father opened the soul torture.
Father: Tired or not?
Son: Tired!
Father: Tired of reading or moving bricks?
Son: Tired of moving bricks.
Father: Do you know why you are studying?
The son shook his head.
Father: If you don't study, you won't have more choices in the future, and you will live more tired. The reason why you study well is to give you more choices in your work in the future.
In the face of children's unwillingness to learn, parents say that no matter how much big truth is useless, only after immersing themselves in the experience of life is not easy, they can understand that they can read, which is really a great blessing.
I have to say that this father knows the essence of words and deeds very well, do you think? #Back-to-School Season# #中国式家庭教育 #
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