There is a saying in the Xunzi:
"In the midst of the fluff, it does not help itself; the white sand is in nirvana, and it is black."
Man is receptive to suggestion.
Everyone around us, everything we do, is quietly influencing our destiny and leading us to a different life.
Making friends can give you energy, motivate you forward, help you succeed, and staggered friends will only induce you to continue to decadence and eventually mediocre.
It's no exaggeration to say how far and how successful you will be in the future, and who you're with now.
So, if you want to have a good future, then you have to make friends and make friends.
The following three kinds of people make you constantly excellent, and you should have more contacts.
Excellent people, motivate you to be motivated
How important is a person's circle?
Someone answered:
"To put it simply, you fly with the geese, and as far as you can see, you can see the vast sky, and you sit with the pigs, and all you can see is gluttony and sleep."
Environmental influence behavior, behavior determines life.
When you are surrounded by mediocre people who do not seek self-improvement, then the negative energy released will attract more negative energy, making people lazy, undisciplined, lack of initiative, and become worse and worse.
On the contrary, if the people around you are very self-disciplined and excellent, then you will also be subtly influenced in it, so that you will continue to be excellent.
I have seen such a report on the Internet that six girls in a dormitory, all of whom were eventually admitted to graduate school with excellent results.
In the face of the interview, one of them revealed that the secret of their ability to be so good is only because they influence each other and motivate each other.
The six people in the dormitory will always ring out at six o'clock in the morning, and under the rendering of this learning atmosphere, everyone has changed the bad habit of lying in bed.
And you chase me and I don't want to fall behind, and the final results are naturally continuous progress.
Confucius said:
"To live with a good person, like entering the room of Zhilan, and not smelling its fragrance for a long time, that is, dissolving with it."
Getting along with good people is like a benchmark in front of him, and he will constantly remind himself to work hard.
The more excellent people around you, the more motivated you will be, and eventually you will get closer and closer to excellent people and become equally excellent.
Kind people who keep you warm
Sanmao said:
"It is a beautiful thing for people to live, not in how beautiful and spectacular the scenery is, but in who they meet to be warmed, and then hope that one day they will become a little sun to warm others." 」
Getting along with kind people, in fact, can get the most valuable thing for yourself, not how much favor and help, but the warmth of the heart.
And this warmth will make their way forward more long.
There is such a story:
A little boy, because his family was poor, moved his mind and pretended to be a beggar to steal money while some people were not paying attention.
However, on the same day he met a man who was downcast.
When the man saw the little boy, he actually took out the only copper plate on his body and put it in the little boy's hand.
The little boy asked him, you are so depressed, why do you have to give money to yourself?
The man just said:
"Because I can't bear to see you begging on the street at such a young age, so you should hurry home."
Hearing the man say this, the little boy looked at the copper plate in his hand again, and he turned home, and after that he never moved his mind again, but relied on his hands to make life better and better.
When the little boy was 40 years old, he had already achieved something, and someone asked him who was the person he was most grateful to, and he replied:
"It was a man who used a copper plate to pull me out of a corner."
Writer Xue Xiaochan said:
"The further you go, the more you find that to be with good people, she gives you energy, gives you time, and makes you feel grand in this world." 」
Kind people will make you feel that the world is very beautiful, and this world is worth your heart to protect and maintain.
With them, you will become a warm person, and these warmth will allow you to meet a better future.
Reliable people, help you succeed
Born in the secular world, no one can live as an island, and it is necessary to deal with people.
And what kind of people can you get along with that will best benefit your career? Is it clever? Is it capable?
In fact, it is not, but a reliable person.
Working with reliable people or cooperating will make you feel at ease, so that you can do things with less.
Know such a man.
He is now the owner of a startup and can be said to be a proper successful person.
Talking about the experience of entrepreneurship, he will sigh:
"The reason why I was able to succeed was not because of how capable I was, but only because I was fortunate enough to meet a group of reliable partners."
When he first started his business, he was followed by two college classmates.
When working together, because both classmates are able to complete the work tasks on time and in excess.
So he never had to worry or fortify.
It is precisely because of the support of their classmates that their company quickly earned the first pot of gold, so that the company ran better and better.
What is reliable?
In fact, the so-called reliable, but only:
"Everything has an account, everything has a fall, and everything has an echo."
When working with reliable people, then you can rest assured that you can fully entrust your rear.
In the end, you will find that everything will go as expected, the work will naturally be better and better, and the career will naturally become more and more successful.
Han Han said:
"How far a person can go depends on who he has traveled; how good a person is, depending on who he has guidance; how successful a person is, depends on who he is with."
The greatest wealth in life is to make the right friends.
When you make more friends with these three kinds of people, then you will find that your luck will get better and better, and your life will become more and more exciting.
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Author: Away from the rain slightly cool, a rational, emotional, like to use words to express personal views, bring you spiritual healing, emotional solution, life perception of the post-90s writer.