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Don't always think about the beginning
Memories are like a pack of prickly heat powder, and when it is itchy, you always want to pat it. And uncontrolled slapping will only make your eyes full of dust and fog, confusing your future path.
Nostalgia seems to be a person's nature. "Think of the beginning, if I were...", "Once I...", we have heard or said it no less than a hundred times.
But such words are too much to say, and they are useless except to give real life a little nostalgia.
The best moments, one is the present and the other is the future. So, take advantage of the time, take advantage of the present, and try to live the rest of the day.
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Good at troublesome others
Writer Wu Zhihong wrote in "The Giant Baby Country":
"A lot of people are afraid of getting in trouble with others. However, without bothering each other, the relationship cannot be established. ”
And good relationships are often established through mutual trouble.
There used to be a little boy who moved a stone in the yard, and his father encouraged him from the side: "Child, as long as you go all out, you must be able to move up!" ”
But the stone was too heavy, and eventually the child could not lift it.
He told his father, "The stone is too heavy, I've exhausted all my strength!" ”
The father said, "You didn't use all your strength. ”
The little boy was puzzled. Father smiled and said, "Because I'm next to you, you didn't ask for my help!" ”
In fact, how to achieve a thing, who stipulates that you can only use your own strength?
After all, a person's power is limited, and sometimes borrowing the power of others is to be able to achieve their own wishes under imperfect conditions.
In this way, everyone rejoices in what they want. Why not?
3
Stay away from negative energy
Positive energy is a state of mind full of sunshine. Negative energy, on the other hand, is a lingering cloud.
We all have this experience:
Chat with some people, full of excitement, unfinished, even if it is cloudy, the sun is in your heart, so that you are radiant, multiply your confidence, and feel the glory of human nature and the beauty of society;
Chatting with some people will become depressed by the dozens of "depressed" people on the other side. Even if the sky is clear and the sun is shining, it will make you feel the sinister nature of people's hearts and make you have no expectations for the future.
It's important to be with someone who can make you better; it's even more important to be with someone who can make both of you better.
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Don't turn away new things
The world is changing rapidly. Writing letters is not as fast as telephone and WeChat; the carriage is not as fast as the high-speed rail; the abacus is not as fast as the calculator.
If you don't accept new things, you can only be eliminated by the times!
Rejecting new things doesn't get any benefits other than standing still.
If the current society does not learn, do not grow, and do not accept, then no one can help you, and you are still you a year later, but you are one year older!
5
Shut up your temper
The greater the temper, the worse the body; the warmer the temper, the deeper the blessing.
Zhang Fei in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" did not die on the battlefield to avenge Guan Yu, but instead overturned the ship in the grumpy gutter and lost his life.
People who are controlled by temper hurt others and hurt themselves; people who know how to control their temper turn temper into anger, and such people have a high emotional intelligence.
There is a saying that goes: "The best way to save your life is not to maintain health, but to manage emotions." ”
Don't let your temper block your blessings, because all your blessings are hidden in your temper.