Hello everyone, I'm Heavenly City. Just saw a video, a little boy is playing against Huang Xiaoming, in the process, the little boy needs to pour bubble noodles on Huang Xiaoming. Probably the child did not want to hurt the "father", could not bear to pour the bubble noodles on Huang Xiaoming, the result of the first beat, the little boy did not shoot well, the bubble noodles along the head of Huang Xiaoming around a circle, spilled elsewhere, this scene is stuck.
Huang Xiaoming saw the little boy's concerns and comforted the child, saying: "Really splash, boldly splash, don't worry." The more accurately I spilled, the happier I became. As a result, at the second beat, Huang Xiaoming was quite accurate when he was splashed with bubble noodles. The child on the side kept staring at Huang Xiaoming and asked him, "Daddy, is it all right?" ”
Some netizens joked: "It's time to make a domineering president and reward yourself." Some netizens commented: "Really warmed up, warm dad type, good man." ”
This is in the filming of the movie "You Are My Spring", Huang Xiaoming filmed to the small actors, the performance is very warm. In other words, in life, Huang Xiaoming is still a warm father. There are online sources that Huang Xiaoming's son calls him "old father brother", and also said that it is the name invented by Xiao Sponge, which shows the deep love between father and son and the good parent-child relationship.
There are warm dads in life, and there are also strict dads. But in fact, many people prefer a warm father, rather than a "roaring" or majestic father. The reason why warm dad is popular is because "warm dad" has many advantages over "strict" dads.
Warm dad is liked by the child because he feels very kind and secure
Warm dad is liked by children, because dad seems to have no sense of distance, manifested in behavior, warm dad is mostly willing to listen to children's speech, allow children to speak differently, accept children's way of thinking, and can make good friends with children.
Warm dad and children together, strong interaction, will do some small games together, children have a sense of security, will not be scolded, yelled, this experience is very comfortable, children are mentally happy, naturally very happy.
Warm dad is liked by children, but also because of the convenience of emotional communication
Warm dad and child together, in addition to talking about learning, but also have the next step of emotional communication, children generally will not be shocked by the father's apparent seriousness, so that the exchange abruptly stopped. This is one of the advantages of warm fathers, and it is also an important reason for warm fathers to have a better relationship with their children.
In front of the warm father, the child can let go of himself, not afraid, not panic, have something to say, play when he should play, which is a very pleasant experience.
Having a warm father to play with is really the luck of a child's life
Someone once told me that childhood was very beautiful, with my father's play, warm chat, even when the grades were bad, there was no blame from my father. When he was a child, his father used to play interactive games with him, a feeling that he still remembers as an adult.
A stress-free, fun childhood became the source of happiness for his life. Indeed, having a warm father who plays with him is really the luck of a child's life. If you're not such a dad, suggest a change. See if you can become a gentle, cute father for the sake of your children?
So, how to become a competent warm dad?
Interact and communicate with children often, treat each other gently, and spend more time with the baby, which is a very intimate approach for warm fathers, and it is also the father's love that children need to grow up.
The love of parents is to think about the long term for their children. If the father can interact with the child, think more about the child's future, play more puzzle content with the child, and make the child happy. That is also very helpful for the child's intellectual development and happy life.
If a child has a warm father, it is really a child's luck. If the father can still play with the child, never yell at the child, and have a good relationship with the child, it is really very happy for the child. Do you have such a good dad?