A woman in Lanzhou followed her boyfriend home to formally meet her parents, met the rice noodles she ate for the first meal, and then gave a red envelope of 300 yuan. Knowing that the woman was pregnant, the boyfriend's sister's words made netizens stunned.
During the Chinese New Year, the woman followed her boyfriend to meet her parents. I didn't expect that my boyfriend's parents would help my sister with the children, and dinner was still the rice noodles that my boyfriend took her to eat outside. If it is a simple meal, it is enough, and the red envelope given by the parents later is only 300 yuan, which makes the woman feel a little unbalanced.
Later, the man's family learned that the woman was pregnant, and the eldest sister was even more of a sentence: Since she is pregnant, she will directly get the certificate. This remark not only made the woman fall into contemplation, but also made netizens worry about the woman.
Three points are worth discussing, since one of the father's parents learned that the future daughter-in-law came to the door for the first time, how can they prepare a little at home, which can be used as an excuse to take the child as an excuse, not to entertain, let the woman eat some rice noodles outside. This is a lack of attention to the woman, if you marry in the future, I don't know what?
Second, the red envelope of 300 yuan is a bit less in the eyes of many people. Indeed, the woman is still pregnant with the man's child, how can it be more! Of course, this also depends on the region, if it is in Guangdong, it is understandable, where the 300 is a high specification.
I don't know how the market in Lanzhou is, and I don't know what the economic conditions of the man's family are, how to make up an even number! There are also many people who say that it doesn't matter if you don't give red envelopes, don't give red envelopes, break this bad habit, I agree.
The third is that the man's family treats the woman's pregnancy, thinking that since they are pregnant, they must be the man's family, directly get the certificate, and become a family is not very good! Is this to reduce the number of engagements?
In some places, for unmarried pregnancies, the male parents will look down on the female side, which is also reasonable, after all, China is a traditional country, more attention to etiquette. But there are also places where it is still a good thing that the woman is pregnant, and she does not dare to get married without getting pregnant.
Personally, I think that if a woman can keep a distance from the man before marriage, she will be looked up to, at least I think so. The red envelope is not a red packet, it is just a form, the key is that the in-laws will be good to you in the future, which is the right way.
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