Text/Little Snow Mom
We know that the child's appearance and height are genetic, some children look like their mothers, and some children look like their fathers, but some children look neither like their fathers nor like their mothers, but they are very similar to the elderly.
For example, Teacher Pan Changjiang and his grandson, as well as Bao Bell's daughter looks like a grandmother, these "generation-by-generation inheritance" as if children and the elderly share a face, but the pain of parents is very helpless.
How much is the genetic energy of generations like? The son looks like "Grandpa"
There is a mother on the Internet who complained that when her child was just born, the black slippery one did not look like herself at all, and at first she felt that the child did not grow up, and the older one could see clearly, but with the increase of the child's age, the more the child still looked more and more unlike himself, not only that and the husband are not too similar, but there is some similarity with the elderly at home.
Especially when the child is slightly older, the more he looks like the child's grandfather between the eyebrows, although the face shape is not very obvious, but the eyes are more and more similar.
Itself, the father-in-law's skin is relatively dark, and the skin of his own children is not white, the grandparents put together, at a glance can see that it is the grandfather, the mother is more helpless, their children did not inherit their own advantages, this is also a pity!
In this regard, some netizens also ridiculed: "From your child, it seems to see the appearance of your father-in-law when he was young, and after this, the child may have a psychological shadow, how to go down to the ground to mouth."
However, this situation is not embarrassing, the child grows up with the elders, indicating that the family genetics are relatively strong, the family looks very kind together, and the alternative idea is actually quite good.
What is "generation-skipping inheritance"? What traits will be inherited?
To say that the simple point of generational inheritance is that in the three generations of a family, the first generation and the third generation have some similar phenotypes, the elderly and children have some similarities, and these characteristics are not reflected in the child's parents and mothers, some inheritance, some recessive genes have become dominant genes, so the child looks more like the elderly.
There are also many places where generations are inherited, the most obvious is "appearance", followed by "skin color" and "body shape", the inheritance of advantages we are naturally happy to see, but there are also some bad aspects in generational inheritance.
First, obesity
Obesity not only does it look unsightly in terms of body shape, but it can also pose a potential danger to health. Like some overweight elderly people, if the generation is inherited to the child, then the child's probability of obesity may also increase, so if the elders in the family are relatively fat, parents must pay attention to the child's weight problem.
Second, genetic diseases
This is the last thing we want as parents, but in fact, "genetic diseases" do exist in intergenerational inheritance, like some elderly people, and the parents of this generation jumped over, but they appeared in children.
More typical ones are like "mental illness", "hemophilia", "color blindness", etc., so when planning to prepare for pregnancy, we must know in advance whether there is a family genetic history, do a good job in related aspects, and consider more for the future health of the child.
After saying these places, do you think that the inheritance of generations on appearance is a good thing? Of course, the premise is that the generations have been inherited to the place of superiority. But parents do not have any psychological burden, children look like elders is not a big deal, in our hearts the child is always the heart of the flesh, is the crystallization of your pregnancy in October.
Treat babies who are "genetically separated from generations" with a normal heart!
First, take care of your children as you want
There are some mothers who feel that they have worked hard to give birth to the baby, and as a result, they look like the old man, and it is inevitable that there will be some taste in their hearts, but do not go too far to their hearts, how to take care of children, how to take care of children, and cultivate education well.
You can't say that you have a second child in the family, and you can't treat each other differently from what you think and what you don't think, which is unfair to the child, and it is easy to hurt the growth of the child, and you must do the same.
Second, be more companion and care
Nowadays, parents are getting busier and busier, many people are handing over their children to the elderly, in fact, parents should take time to accompany their children, and the affection and love that parents can bring with their children is something that the elderly cannot give.
The elderly can only say that they can help to see the child, take care of the next three meals a day, it is related to the child's education and growth, or parents themselves to worry more and pay more, we are the guide on the road to the child's growth.
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