The famous writer Oswald Schwartz once said: "Marriage is the essence of a complete life." ”
In our lives, we will meet all kinds of people who make up our lives. It is precisely because of these people that our lives have become unique and more complete.
And in this group of people, the most important thing to us is our lover.
Because the person who enters the marriage hall with you will be the one who will accompany you through the rest of your life, experience the ups and downs together, and experience the chai rice oil and salt together.
Henan brides are addicted to watching the hilarity when they get married
Perhaps because marriage is too important, and for the vast majority of people, everyone is getting married for the first time, and the experience is told orally by the elders of the family, and they have participated in several weddings at most, and they have not personally practiced.
This has led to many newlyweds sweating at the wedding, more nervous than taking the college entrance examination themselves, either afraid of not being able to pick up the words of the emcee, or worried about making jokes in front of relatives and friends.
In this matter, a bride in Henan showed extraordinary calmness.
Not only was she not at all worried that she would make jokes, but she looked at herself calmly, immersed in her own world and busy watching the hilarity, and even forgot that she was a bride.
Here's how it went.
A couple in Henan is holding a wedding, relatives and friends gathered together, and everyone sent their blessings to the two.
Soon, it was one of the most important parts of the wedding: kneeling on a big red quilt to kowtow to the elders in the family.
It is said that this is a local traditional custom, in addition to expressing gratitude to the elders, but also hoping that the two will have a prosperous life and a happy life after marriage.
I saw that the bride's makeup was exquisite, beautiful and moving, the groom was dressed in a suit, refreshed, and even the quilt was "red and purple", neatly folded.
At this point, everything is ready.
An elder came to the two of them, presumably he had rehearsed this scene many times in his mind. At this time, he was looking forward to it with joy.
The groom immediately got down on his knees and prepared to prostrate, but the next scene caught the groom a little off guard, and he never expected that his bride would do such a thing at the wedding.
It turned out that in order to celebrate the marriage of the two, the family specially invited the local folk art troupe to perform in the courtyard, because the performance was too wonderful, the bride had been addicted to it and could not extricate herself, and had long forgotten the matter of prostrating her head.
The groom was anxious and angry, and quickly pulled the bride who was pulling the pestle in place, signaling the bride not to patronize and watch the bustle, but to quickly kowtow to the elders.
The bride then remembered that today was her wedding day and had to kowtow to the elders. So he hurriedly "reluctantly" knelt down.
The reason why the bride kneels "reluctantly" is because although she came out of her world under the reminder of the groom, she did not seem to come out completely, and even "knew what was wrong", and when she knelt down, she kept looking into the courtyard, as if the marriage was far less important than watching the performance outside.
Although there was a little bit of an episode in this link, fortunately, it was still smooth to kowtow to the elders.
The whole process was only ten seconds short, but the scene was filmed by the guests attending the wedding and posted online.
Netizens who saw this scene instantly blossomed and expressed their views.
Some netizens said: "This bride is also too cute, a look is a very simple girl, this can let the in-laws see the baby." ”
Some netizens also said: "Although the bride looks a little silly and cute, their life after marriage will be very happy." ”
Some netizens also commented: "Others are nervous about getting married and sweating, she can be good, forget that she is such a big thing as a bride, how big is this heart." ”
Some netizens said: "Get married first and put it back, and it is not too late to get married after I have finished watching the hilarity." ”
Some netizens laughed and said: "The first marriage has no experience Ha, everyone is more inclusive, don't be surprised." ”
More netizens shared their own wedding scenes:
"I also made jokes when I got married, and now that I think about it, I want to find a seam to drill into." At the wedding, I had to change my mouth, at first it was just my parents, I behaved well, but in the back, my husband's seven aunts and eight aunts all went up at once. My husband told me that this is the eldest aunt, this is the second aunt, this is the eldest aunt, this is the second aunt... I was confused at the time, nodded directly, and muttered. Then the emcee was stunned for two seconds to let me call people, and I reacted to this, but I was nervous and forgot who they were, and directly said hello. It's a literal death scene. ”
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Although now the whole network knows that the bride made a joke because she was addicted to watching hilarity, everyone did not blame the bride, but was amused by the bride's behavior.
In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in many families is not very good, and the two people either quarrel every day or usually do not say a word, just like strangers.
This can make men difficult.
On the one hand, he is the mother who raised himself, and on the other hand, he wants to accompany his wife for most of his life, and the palms of his hands and the backs of his hands are full of meat. It is not okay to help anyone, it is not okay to help to watch from the side, coordination is not so easy, in case you are in a hurry, you have to eat and walk.
But if you marry a girl like the one in the video, you don't have to worry about it at all.
Such a girl is very simple and very likable at first glance, how can she be willing to scold?
Don't look at the groom in the video a little unhappy, slowly he knows how happy it is to have such a woman as his wife.
Du Yuesheng said: "Love life or marriage life is two people, so there is no need to be too selfish, think more about each other and pay." ”
I hope that in front of the screen, you can also harvest your own happiness and find the person who will accompany you through the rest of your life.
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