Text I East Side Teacher
On February 14, Valentine's Day, when everyone was immersed in a romantic atmosphere, Wu Qian officially announced her divorce, and she posted a photo with her daughter: "The lovers of single girls will save." ”
For a moment, it was a little sad to watch. Immediately after, Zhang Yujian also posted: Thanks for the beautiful encounter, the future is long, we are still the parents of the children and each other's closest friends.
Perhaps many people are not too familiar with these two stars, and we are not going to gossip today, but we hope that women can see clearly from their marriages what kind of men, no matter how much love can not marry!
In fact, as early as the beginning, many netizens were not optimistic about their marriage, why? Because Zhang Yujian did not take responsibility. Let's take a look at the details of their feelings.
The two people got acquainted with each other for 18 years, and then in 19 years, they were filmed dating, meeting their parents, and being exposed to be pregnant, but in this way, the two sides still did not have an official announcement.
In a live broadcast of Wu Qian in 20 years, everyone found the ring on her ring finger and knew that they were married, but Zhang Yujian never made an official announcement, and even set up a single person.
Until 21 years, Wu Qian was exposed to carry a child alone, suspected that she had married and had a child with Zhang Yujian, Zhang Yujian admitted that she was in normal love and married, and had a child.
The whole text even refers to Wu Qian as "her mother".
From love to marriage, there has never been an initiative to disclose the intention of love and marriage, but when it comes to divorce, it is the first time to stand up and inform.
Of course, maybe he has his own unspeakable secrets in this process, but I have to say that he really doesn't have much responsibility.
What kind of man must leave early?
1. Reluctance to disclose after having feelings
Some men have feelings, do not want to open, beautiful name, unnecessary, do not like, you this habit. Actually this type of man, from the beginning, wasn't sure to go with you for too long.
They just treat you as a spare tire, want to walk while watching, see if there is better, if there is the right, better, you will be kicked away, then he will find a reason, we are not suitable, and then you are still stupid to think that you are not doing well enough, want to change yourself, save each other.
You would never have thought that he would actually only have a good feeling for you at most, or that you are just suitable for marriage, but not the best person for him.
If at this time, you accidentally get pregnant and clamor to get married, he will agree, but because the feelings for you are not so deep at the beginning, just feel suitable for marriage, so after marriage, he will only get worse and worse for you, and this man is also easy to be useless, so that you will live a widowed marriage early.
When you want to divorce, you may have no bottom, because maybe you are a full-time wife, have no financial resources, and do not have the ability to live alone with your children, so you can only endure pain.
And this kind of endurance will let him see your cowardice, naturally, the risk of his betrayal of the marriage will be higher, then all you will be left with is continuous forbearance and endless pain.
2. Selfish men for profit
Just like some celebrities, obviously in love, married, not only dare not open, or even set up a single person, why do you want to do this? Because he is afraid that once he opens up, his interests will be affected, and he is afraid of the loss of fans, and his career will also be affected.
And in real life, how do ordinary men calculate their interests?
How much money this meal costs, you have to give me half the money, not that AA is not good, but such an over-calculated, has lost the meaning of love itself, of course, it does not mean that men should pay, love is naturally to go in both directions, pay each other.
It's just that excessive AA, so that love, marriage only has interest entanglement, and less of that throbbing and romance, what is the meaning of such feelings to it?
For example, if you are in a long-distance relationship, a long-distance marriage, every time you take the initiative to see him, but he rarely takes the initiative to see you, when you ask the reason, he will say: "I am too busy, and the road fee is so expensive, I don't earn much now, we want to save!" ”
This kind of man whose interests are supreme, if someone gives him ten thousand and lets him leave you, I believe he will easily agree, such a man does not have you in his eyes, what is the use of him?
Men of these two qualities are only a part of those men who cannot marry, in fact, there are many men who cannot be married that need you to polish your eyes and carefully distinguish, we are not afraid of marriage, but do not blindly go up, with the like of a brain into the marriage.
Hopefully every woman can have happy feelings and never get hurt again!
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