As an adult, you've learned to control your emotions in a variety of situations, but your child hasn't learned yet. Tantrums are a normal part of his upbringing, and usually tantrums are not a symptom of a serious emotional or personality disorder. Almost all children do this occasionally. Especially for children aged 2 to 3 years. If handled properly, the intensity and frequency of tantrums will decrease at age 4 to 5.
Tantrums are often a sign of frustration. They want more independence, but beyond what their abilities and security allow, and they hate being restricted. So when they want to make their own decisions, but don't know how to deal with these problems. At the same time, when you can't express your thoughts well in words, you will express anger and frustration by crying and throwing tantrums.
You can't prevent your child from having a tantrum every time, but you can reduce the number of times he loses his temper, shorten the time of crying, and reduce the intensity. Sleep-deprived children may be more likely to lose their tempers, so we can avoid overworking, anxiety, or depression in the child, and if the child is not willing to sleep, we can lie down with him or tell a story, but do not let him talk and play too much.
Parents should also set appropriate rules, not too strict, but unswervingly implement, while also reinforcing the child's good behavior. If it's a small matter, he can be allowed to have his own opinions, such as if he wants to get dressed after eating. If he's running and jumping by the river, you must stop him and insist that he listen to you and forcibly pull him over. Every time he makes a mistake, he has to react firmly in the same way. He couldn't possibly learn these lessons right away, so was prepared to repeat these interventions many times until his behavior changed. At the same time, tell everyone else in the family to be on the same front and discipline in the same way.
So a good strategy to prevent your child from losing your temper is to provide him with the right choices, and these choices are appropriate and reasonable, for example, you can ask him, do you play with toys at home, or go to the playground, or go out in the winter and don't want to wear shoes, you can say: "Do you wear it yourself, or do you hold it yourself, or I help you hold it." "Out the door, the cold weather will naturally make him put on."
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