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Blessings are eternal, and misfortunes are eternal.
Blessings are not eternal and long-lasting. And the scourge does not last forever. The evils and blessings of this world will actually be transformed into each other, like a "cycle."
In your opinion, what is the greatest blessing of a person?
Some people feel that a person's greatest blessing is to have money and power, have a car and a house, and become famous.
Some people feel that the greatest blessing of a person is that everything goes well, that everything is good, that everything is good, and that all is well.
Some people feel that the greatest blessing of a person is to be able to jump, eat and sleep, and have no worries in this life.
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In fact, each of the above points belongs to our blessings. However, the greatest blessing of people should be to be able to feel the warmth around us from time to time, and there will always be hope in our hearts, thinking that the world is worth it.
People, no matter how rich, also need to share with others. No matter how much you achieve, you need to share these joys with others.
Blessings, after all, can not be enjoyed alone. It is also a great wisdom to benefit those around you.
When a person reaches sixty, the greatest blessing is not that he is rich and powerful, but that he is accompanied by these people.
02
It is your blessing to have a confidant by your side.
There is a saying that "friends are easy to find, but confidants are difficult to find." ”
The rarest thing in this world is not a friend, but our confidant. The word confidant represents a kind of fate, but also represents a kind of blessing.
In this troubled society, we can meet countless friends, as long as we want, the people on the street are our friends, but whether they are sincere or not, we don't know.
But among the people on this street, we may not find even a confidant. Why? Because what confidants represent is the appreciation of mutual cherishing. This kind of person has basically become a rare animal.
With the company of a confidant, you can feel particularly relaxed, others can listen to your heart, you can also feel empathy. In the end, both parties can feel warm and happy.
The most beautiful friendship in this world is the love of confidant. Just like Yu Boya met the Zhong Zi period, you and I play a song together in the mountains and flowing water, which is the most beautiful movement in this life.
Cherish the confidants around us, that is our blessing.
03
It is your blessing to be accompanied by old people who have known each other for many years.
There is a kind of person who is particularly similar to a confidant, that is, an old fellow who has been friends for many years. However, the nature of the old man and the confidant is different.
Dude, that's a close friend who has been with us for more than ten or twenty years. Confidants, on the other hand, are soul mates who are similar to our three views and have a seal of heart.
In fact, the old guy who has known each other for many years will give people a feeling of "closeness". To put it bluntly, it is grounded.
When there is a difficult time, the old guys can help each other. When you encounter problems, you can support me, I can also help you, two brothers in a lifetime, never separated from each other.
Why do we often say that "old guys are better than brothers"?
Your brother is just a relative who is related to you by blood, which does not mean anything. It is possible that he will not be in the same heart as you, and may even tear down your stage.
The old guy is different, he came to you, or accompanied you for so many years, with not only fate, but also a profound friendship that has been tempered by years.
Cherish this kind of love for more than ten or twenty years, which is a gift from Heaven to us.
04
Having a close companion by your side is a blessing that you have cultivated for several lifetimes.
We can divide partners into three categories.
The first type of partner is the person who makes up his or her way to live. There is no common topic between the two sides, anyway, it is in the name of husband and wife, and I don't know what it means for both parties to be together.
The second type of partner is the one who calculates each other. Both parties marry for the sake of profit, and after marriage, they are pregnant with ghosts, leaving the family in a clear struggle.
The third type of partner should be the lifelong partner of our hearts and minds. He can understand our hearts like a confidant, and he can also accompany us as a lover and spend these decades with us.
It can be said that this kind of lifelong partner is still particularly rare. Because the marriage atmosphere in modern society is particularly bad, couples who run away as soon as they encounter illness or difficulties are actually innumerable.
If one day, you can meet such a true love level of partners, or you can have such a partner now, then you may as well cherish them. You know, supporting each other with a close partner until old age is a blessing that people have cultivated for several lifetimes.
05
To be accompanied by filial piety is a blessing in one's old age.
There is a saying that "filial piety also gives birth to filial piety, and disobedience also gives birth to disobedience." ”
The filial piety believes that his children and grandchildren will not be far behind. In the end, he will also become a happy old man. This is what we often call "good rewards for good."
On the contrary, he is an unfilial person, always likes to do some stealing, abduction, and even disloyalty and filial piety, and I believe that his children and grandchildren are also such people. In the end, he will live more and more miserable. This is what we often call "evil has evil retribution."
When we are young, we need to lead by example and set a good example for future generations. When we are old, we can harvest the filial piety of our children and grandchildren.
The source of all blessings and misfortunes is in oneself. We do our best, cherish the people around us, believe that you and I will spend the rest of our lives and blossom a tree.
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