Excessive kindness will only make people feel that you are worthless.
I am a northeasterner working as a nanny in Beijing, and the nature of my work determines that I am called every day. I'm a person with strong self-esteem, so how did I find this balance?
Now many units do not have such colleagues, who who closes the door casually, who helps me pour a cup of water, who you go out a little bit to help me bring something, they are testing you, testing your temper testing your tolerance test you are not good control. At this time, you take a step back and tell you that there is no sea and sky, which will only make him kick his nose in the face. After you answer one by one, his custody requirements will be more and more, bigger and bigger. Can you believe it?
Don't have any excuses when rejecting someone else. The tone is resolute and competent, don't be stubborn. Don't act like you don't help him, there's something wrong with you.
The most important point is that when rejecting others, don't look at the other person's reaction, what his reaction is about you. Just do your job.
Back to the point. Although I am a nanny, I first ask the client to make three requests. You read that right. Someone will scare me, and you dare to make rules for your employer. Yes, this is called the principle must be pinched.
First, do not wash intimate clothes for the employer, except for special circumstances (special circumstances are such as the employer is injured and can not wash it), as long as it is for no reason to ask the aunt to wash her intimate clothes, it means that the employer treats you as a maid, must maintain their dignity, refuse to wash intimate clothes.
Second, a lunch break of one hour a day, the nanny's work is a long time from morning to night. If you don't go to rest, your body will definitely not be able to stand it, and you will not have the energy to do things in the afternoon. If you don't mention this, you will have to ask for instructions if you want to take a lunch break later. And the customer is not happy, he will feel that you are taking up the working time.
Third, be sure to eat separately. The stomach must be full. Before going to the door, you must tell the customer that we have regulations in this industry. Our aunt wants to eat separately, and I will divide my portion in advance every day. But to remind you, do not eat the very expensive dishes in the customer's home, you have to endure it no matter how hungry you want to eat. Take four days off each month to go out and eat on your own. We must be self-respecting, only if we respect ourselves, can we win the respect of our customers.
Are you saying that my request is excessive?
