Wearing watermelon peel on your head and old newspaper, what kind of clothing is this? Will such a daughter-in-law recruit people? This is the original story behind this.
A woman, dressed in an old newspaper and wearing a watermelon peel, stood next to the bus stop. Everyone was surprised by this outfit and talked about it. Unexpectedly, the woman began to complain, she said that at home, her mother-in-law hated her for spending money and spending a lot of money, and did not know frugality.
Out of helplessness, the wife had to go out like this to express her dissatisfaction, she said that she usually spent money on the family's expenses, and did not spend much money on herself, but she did not know how to make her mother-in-law satisfied.
"In the video, a woman wears a watermelon peel and a newspaper, such a daughter-in-law, the door-picking mother-in-law should like it."
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@Love does not seek people: Generally speaking, to alleviate the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the role of my father is more important. But because my father's emotional intelligence still has some room to improve, and my father has a little bit of mommy personality, this often leads to him often not being able to play a better role as a coordinator. This leads to the possibility that the role of the coordinator can often fall on the head of something like my grandfather, or even me. Especially since I was an only child and I had one grandchild in the family, my grandmother and my mother tended to talk and discuss a large number of topics that were not suitable for discussion in front of the whole family, or that were not suitable for discussion in front of my father. Sometimes I may also need to act as a facilitator, or even as a "messenger of peace." So after decades of accumulation over many years. I also have a deeper understanding of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In this article, from the perspective of a grandson, through the analysis of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in my family, I explore the source of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and at the same time, I have a certain thinking on how to alleviate the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
It should be said that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China is serious, because the previous mother-in-law was too dependent on psychology, the concept of raising children and preventing the elderly was too heavy, the independence and autonomy were poor, and many husband and wife relationships were generally basically old companions, so life was expected to be sons, resulting in the situation of domestic in-laws living together is very common. But any open-minded and advanced mother-in-law will actually not have any problem of contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but this time the mother-in-law may not be much, people have their own lives, so they will not interfere with the children's families, nor will they be lonely and cold every day. This daughter-in-law has woken up to the fact that the difference in concept with the mother-in-law is actually the difference in concept caused by the times, there is no solution, less contact, separation is the best. #Emotion#What is the real cause of the tension in the mother-in-law relationship ##婆媳关系 #
