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When I was about to get married, my stepmother asked for a dowry of 200,000 yuan, thinking that she wanted to leave all the money for her brother to marry her daughter-in-law, but on the day of my marriage, my stepmother's move surprised and moved me very much

author:harmony

When I was about to get married, my stepmother asked for a dowry of 200,000 yuan, thinking that she wanted to leave all the money for her brother to marry her daughter-in-law, but on the day of my marriage, one of my stepmother's actions surprised me very much, and I was moved to cry on my knees!

My name is Zhang Tong, is a Jiangsu native, 26 years old this year, is a designer, monthly salary of 8,000 yuan, my husband is one year older than me, called Zhang Bo, is a sales supervisor, a monthly salary of about 26,000 yuan.

When I was three years old, my mother left me, and I didn't know the reason for my parents' divorce, and my father didn't mention it afterwards.

It is understandable to say that the conditions in my family are not good, and it is understandable that my mother and father divorced, but the conditions in our family are still quite good, and later with the blurring of my impression of my mother, I no longer think about pursuing my parents' divorce.

When I was five years old, my stepmother came into the house, and my stepmother was a very virtuous woman, very kind-looking, and very kind to me, although at first I rejected her.

Stepmother has a particularly good personality, and is very reasonable, unlike my mother, my stepmother treats me with a smile every day, treats me as a daughter, and the stepmother and father have a very good relationship, watching them go out and go to work in the field together every day, go home and cook together, very loving.

But later, because my stepmother was sincere with me, I naturally accepted her, and in my heart, I also treated her as a mother from the bottom of my heart.

After marrying my father, my stepmother gave birth to a younger brother, in fact, at that time, I was particularly afraid that my stepmother would give me another brother or sister, because I was worried that if I had a brother or sister, it would be bad for me, so since my stepmother became pregnant, I have been sullen.

But at that time, my stepmother kept comforting me and saying that even if I had children again, I would still be her favorite baby.

It is also true that after the birth of my brother, my stepmother was also very kind to me, although my brother was six years younger than me, but from childhood to adulthood, as long as my brother had it, my stepmother would definitely prepare a copy for me.

And the stepmother often told the younger brother that when he grew up, he should protect his sister, he was a boy, he should let the sister, and without knowing it, even some people suspected that the younger brother was not the son of the mother.

I still remember when I was in high school, the conditions in the family were not very good, but my stepmother insisted that I make up the lessons, because she said: "Knowledge can change fate." ”

So my stepmother took advantage of the summer farm leisure time to go to the town to work with my father, I studied desperately and really did not live up to my stepmother, became the first college student in the village, got the admission letter to take the day, the stepmother was happy and broken, everyone said: My daughter was admitted to college, out of the crowd!

As we grew older, I also fell in love, my husband and I were college classmates, and we met on the day we first entered the university gate, and we met often after that.

At first we just nodded and smiled, and then slowly became acquainted, I had a good feeling for him, he also liked me, no one confessed to anyone, we naturally came together.

My relationship with my husband is very good, my husband hurts me very much, when I was in college, I was lazy, so I didn't want to go out for breakfast at all.

Every day, my husband bought breakfast and brought it to class, and after I finished eating in class, my husband helped me clean up. After four years of college, with my husband's care, I feel very happy.

After graduating from college, both of us found jobs and our relationship became better and better, but after I fell in love with my husband, my stepmother was not very relieved that I would marry my husband, because my husband's family was very far away from our home.

At first, my stepmother wanted to oppose us being together, afraid that if I had something to do, she would not be able to help, but in the end, because of my insistence, she still agreed to our marriage, but she proposed a dowry of 300,000 yuan.

This is really beyond my imagination, all along, in my impression, the stepmother is not a gold worshipper, but in the end, in order to be with me, my husband still agreed to the request of the stepmother.

I thought that my stepmother would leave all this money for my brother's marriage, so I couldn't help but feel a little sad when I thought about it, but I didn't expect that before I got married, my stepmother handed me a bank card and told me that it was her dowry for me.

At that time, I thought that there should be 100,000 yuan here, but my stepmother told me: Girlfriend, although you are not my own child, but we have been a mother and daughter for so many years, I have always treated you as a daughter.

Now you are going to get married, I really can't bear it, here are half a million, not my mother has to ask for this bride price, I want to order more bride price, so that there will be a guarantee for your future life, and the remaining two hundred thousand, I and your father gave you, after marriage, live a good life, mom hopes you can be happy.

Listening to the words of my stepmother, I can't help but burst into tears, although there is no care of my mother in this life, but having such a stepmother is also the greatest happiness in my life, and in the future, I must be filial to her well. (Contributed by netizens)

First of all, congratulations on your imminent marriage, I hope you and your boyfriend can grow old and have a noble child early!

I think you are a very happy person, to have a stepmother who loves you so much, treats you like a biological daughter, and even better, your stepmother can do a bowl of water, really a great and kind-hearted woman, praise her!

Although you and your stepmother have a certain gap, but she is really single-minded to you, you should also learn to be grateful, with a grateful heart to look at the stepmother, she not only raised you as an adult, marriage is also very handy.

In the days to come, I hope you can be filial to your stepmother and often go home when you are fine! Remember that no matter what time, the child is the concern of the parents.

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