Once a man has changed his mind
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On the day of the wind, I tried to hold your hand, but the rain gradually became so big that I couldn't see you.
This is a line in the song "Sunny Days", sometimes it is not that people can't see clearly, but the other party's heart you can't figure out.
It is said that loving someone is an extremely simple thing, and both like and unhappiness are written on the face, once the other party is no longer touched by you.
Then, no matter how much you try to save it, it will be in vain.
There is a saying that goes like this: "Girls always like to ask 'Do you love me', not because they are insecure, but because they want to be firmly chosen by the other party." 」
Loving someone is actually really easy to see, and the same is not love.
Once a man has changed his heart, the once mountain alliance and sea oath, the sea dry stone rotten are all a scene of drama, who is serious who loses.
Someone said: "Once love so hard, like being inserted with a knife, from the beginning slowly faded into the body, you gradually paralyzed and did not feel pain, and when the time came, he withdrew at once, and the pain gradually spread."
Yes, the man changes his heart, he will slowly lose patience, and he will become perfunctory to you.
Find the gap and want to escape, and even annoy you from time to time.
From the beginning of "in the heavens wish to be compared to the winged birds, in the earth wish to be a branch" to "once the sea was shipwrecked as water, except for the Wushan Mountain is not a cloud."
It's just that today is different from the past, when he has changed his heart and can't get it back, learn to be nice to himself, and don't get deeper and deeper.
02
Once he changes his mind, he will become less and less interested in you
Love seems to have a shelf life, like an expired can, knowing that it has deteriorated, but it is still reluctant to lose.
The same is true of feelings, when a person changes his heart, he will become more and more impatient with you, and no matter how good you are to him, he will still not appreciate it.
If you think about it carefully, people say that feelings are the process of changing from love to affection, and once the freshness has passed, people who cannot accept the bland will leave one step at a time.
There is a saying on the Internet: "Novelty is not experiencing the same thing with different people, but experiencing different things with the same person."
When a person has changed his heart, if he really leaves you, then let him go, after all, the knife cuts off the water and the water flows more, and the only person who can make him change his mind is himself.
Just like in the TV series "Thirty Only", there is a scene like this: Xu Huanshan hugs Gu Jia and the child affectionately, but all that comes to mind is Lin Youyou's shadow.
Many people are upset about Gu Jia, why such a good woman is not cherished, the reason is that his freshness of this feeling has long passed.
Some people will say, then why is he still dragging his feet and not getting a divorce.
The reason is that he wants to take care of both, both with Gu Jia's thoughtfulness and gentleness, and with Lin Youyou's lively youth.
As the saying goes, "Changing hearts is an instinct, and loyalty is a choice."
When a man is wavering in the face of choices, it is only a matter of time before his change of heart.
03
Once you change your mind, he will push you farther away with cold violence
Cold violence refers to a person's use of silence and non-contact to gradually break down a person's inner defense line.
Just like in the TV series "Perfect Partner", Lin Qingkun's cold violence against Wu Min, from a certain point of view, is the most advanced cold violence.
He will break a person's defense line from the beginning, make her feel worthless, and give a fatal blow when she is wronged.
When Wu Min dropped her child because of a fall, her first reaction as a husband was not to comfort her, but to blame.
When the woman said her grievances, the man actually felt annoyed and slammed the door and left, such love is undoubtedly the best interpretation of the change of heart.
Because loving someone will not let her be blown by the cold wind alone, nor will she face the setbacks and denigrations in life alone.
When a man changes his heart, he has only himself in his heart.
Living in your own small circle, without caring about the life and death of your partner, such love has long existed in name only.
Instead of missing the teenager who once took care of you, it is better to recognize the reality.
You must know that only by being good to yourself can you not be invaded by cold wind and cold rain.
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Once he changes his mind, he forgets many important days
I have seen such a street interview on Douyin, saying that couples can say each other's lovers anniversary within ten seconds.
The first couples accurately said each other's birthdays, and even more clearly remembered the girl's menstrual period.
At the end of the interview, a couple appeared, and it was obvious that the man did not answer, and the girl was a little angry.
At first the boy tried to coax her, but within two minutes the boy felt that his face could not be hung up and he was angry, leaving the girl disheveled in the wind.
The video below sings that they have no feelings.
From the man's impatient eyes, it can be seen that he has long ceased to love her, and he does not even want to remember the most important day.
When a man changes his heart, there is no longer you in his future territory, so when he changes his heart, you must also learn to let go.
No one in this world can always accompany anyone, when he is leaving, it is better to grasp it than to let go, and it is better to deceive yourself than to let go.
