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【Four secrets behind children's rebellion】
The essence of rebellion is helplessness
The more rebellious the child, the more helpless he is
All the rebellion he showed was just a cry out to his parents for help: Look at me, help me!
[Rebellion is only the product of the child's ineffective communication with the parents, and it is also a disguised request for advice issued when the child is most helpless, trying to attract the attention of the parents.] 】
Behind the rebellion is the lack of love
Love is the best way to solve the problem.
Behind all stubborn bad habits and rebellious behaviors is a cry of pain for love and scarcity. If every parent can hear the cry behind the rebellion, it will not simply oppose the child and block the emotional channels of communication.
Rebellion is the product of power struggles
The "rebellion" of children often stems from the "rebellion" of parents.
A child's rebellion stems largely from excessive discipline and repression by parents.
Rebellion is nothing more than a contest of power between children and parents.
Rebellion is not the child's fault
Children's disobedience and rebellion are actually feedback on the inappropriate education and miscommunication of parents and parents. Children are rebellious, often meaning that the whole family needs to change, not just the children.
Policy Guidance:
Seeing – is the beginning of change.
Understanding is the channel that opens the child's heart.
Empowerment – the best respect for children.