"Happiness is probably about finding someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense."
And true love, in fact, talk about "nonsense".
Because two people who love each other can't help but want to say a lot of "nonsense", want to tell you everything that happened today and the people they met.
This kind of psychology is what we call the desire to share.
The stronger the desire to share, the better the feelings of two people, because the essence of the desire to share is enthusiasm and love.
In the back-and-forth sharing, two people can understand each other more deeply and can also deepen their love for each other.
In short, good love or marriage is "nonsense" that cannot be said.
In love, when you meet the right person, two introverts can also have endless "nonsense".
Those trivial daily routines, lazy afternoons, leisure time, can be the source of chat.
I've heard the saying: "The by-product of love is nonsense." ”
If you truly love someone, you will want to say all the "nonsense" to you, and you will be happy to respond to all your "nonsense" tirelessly.
It's a kind of happiness, but also a comfortable mode of getting along.
And between lovers, if you want a stable and long-lasting relationship, you must have a person who loves to talk about "nonsense" and a person who loves to listen to "nonsense".
Because:
The person who is willing to talk nonsense with you at any time is the person who understands you the most; the person who is willing to listen to your nonsense at all times is also the person who loves you the most. [Heart]
Author: Carrie's sister