The truth of not marrying: The model of high marriage does not match the era of equality between men and women, and the high marriage model is still very appropriate in the past, especially in the era of agriculture and industry, which are heavy and dirty work

The Truth About Not Marrying: The pattern of high marriage does not match the era of equality between men and women

The high-marriage model was still very appropriate in the past, especially in the era of agriculture and industry, it was heavy and dirty work, so it mainly relied on men to make money. And now into the era of mobile Internet, the tertiary service industry slowly become the mainstream, do not rely on physical strength of the era, women's workplace status is no less than men, even gender advantages have many advantages, earning power and men are almost the same.

However, at this time, women's thinking still stayed in the era of high marriage. Income men are higher than themselves, ability and education are stronger than their own, economic men have to take the initiative to pay, married men have to buy a house... Bit by bit of life, or stay in the men pay the main, women can enter and retreat thinking, aside from a few individual cases, this is the general majority of the social reality.

So women look around, can not find a match, because the inner value standards still require men to have this and that, anyway, the overall can not be worse than themselves, and men see that women's view of mate selection is so pragmatic, and no longer have the desire to pursue, look at each other.