For a while, the petite Sweetie suddenly became interested in various "punches", stretching out her arms and kicking her legs like a little boy. Every day when I went out for a walk, the previous singing games were also played

For a while, the petite Sweetie suddenly became interested in various "punches", stretching out her arms and kicking her legs like a little boy. Every day when I went out for a walk, the previous singing game was also replaced by the "fight" game. She would show me her "original" tricks, and at this time I would also be very cooperative, and would put on a move, saying: "Come, also pick me up a move to descend the dragon eighteen palms." "This game is sweet and enjoyable, and I have been "practicing" martial arts with me for almost a month.

Perhaps some parents will feel that girls "fight" all day long, like a boy, and lose the feminine beauty. But in my opinion, Tiantian's sudden love for the so-called "martial arts" is actually just a hobby of hers, which does not affect the formation of her gentle temperament, and also adds a touch of "heroic posture" to her, and the whole person appears lively and capable. If so, why should I object? That will only make my daughter lose her vitality, let me stand against her, and become an opponent with her.

So I "consciously" cooperated with Tiantian's game, and also cleverly guided, decided to tell her about the martial arts in Jin Yong's novels through this game, although I didn't know much, but the most famous ones I still knew. And in order to cooperate with Tiantian, I also re-read Jin Yong's martial arts novels, and then learned that Jin Yong's martial arts can actually be divided into many kinds, for example, according to the principle of Fa Gong, it can be divided into external gong and internal gong: the famous descending dragon eighteen palms belong to external gong, and the nine yin white bone claws belong to internal gong.

For me, the process of reading novels is also a process of self-improvement. All along, I always felt that martial arts novels are not suitable for women to read, but after careful reading, I found that Jin Yong's novels are elegant and the plot is fascinating, which can soothe people's emotions and attract people's reverie, which not only alleviates the pressure brought by work, but also invisibly increases literary accomplishment. In fact, the most important thing is that I learned about the beauty of various characters, such as the gentleness and virtuousness of Shuang'er, the loyalty and honesty of Guo Jing, and so on.

And Tiantian also learned a lot of moves in the process, of course, I did not tell her that these were "moved" from Jin Yong's novels. I believe that when Tiantian grows up and comes into contact with the TV series adapted from Jin Yong's novel or one of the novels, she will remember the moves she once played with me, and a good memory will rise in her heart: It turns out that my mother is my best friend.

My husband once reminded me that letting Tiantian understand this would not help her life and study. Yes, I understand this, but I am sure that these can improve Sweet's cognitive abilities, and only when her cognitive abilities are improved, she will be full of enthusiasm and motivation for life, and will not easily give up her life goals. What's more, through these games, I worked with her to improve her abilities and make her realize that I was not just a mother, but could also be her qualified friend.

Spring came, everything began to recover, the buds of grass burrowed out of the ground, and the ice and snow on the river began to melt. Every time I take Sweetie out to play, she often crouches down to look at the grass that has just been drilled out of the dirt and asks many questions, such as "What is its name?" "How tall can it grow?" I have never been impatient with these sweet questions, although this knowledge is a blind spot for me, and I do not understand the names of those flowers and plants. So I began to check the information on the Internet, to make up for this knowledge, and to master the names of many flowers and plants and their functional and physical characteristics, such as what wild vegetables can be cooked and eaten, what flowers and herbs can be used as medicinal materials, which can bloom beautiful flowers...

Therefore, when Tiantian asked me again in the future, I could accurately say the names of flowers and plants, explain their appearance characteristics and functions, and popularize some knowledge of crops to Tiantian, such as what kind of crops to grow in what season. Within two months, Tiantian had a general understanding of this knowledge. In the backyard of Sweet School, there is a piece of land of about 40 square meters, and when spring comes, the teacher asks them to bring their own seeds and plant them in the soil, and then observe the growth of the plants. But Tiantian told the teacher that she did not need to observe to know the characteristics of these plants, at first the teacher thought she was bragging, after asking some questions about the appearance characteristics of cabbage and spinach, the teacher was surprised, she could not understand why Sweet who lived in the "reinforced concrete forest" would know so much.

Once, Tiantian went out for a walk with me, pointed to the grass on the side of the road and asked me, "Mom, what does these grasses taste like?" I said to her, "You can pluck one and smell it." She did pluck one, smelled it, and said doubtfully, "Oh, what the hell does this smell like?" I took it and sniffed it, and for a moment I didn't know what it was. What to do, do I have to tell Sweet "I don't know"? While I know it's not a shame to admit to my child that I don't know, I want to give her a real answer. Suddenly, I thought of a sentence, so I said to Tiantian: "This is the taste of spring, think about it, spring has arrived, the grass has absorbed the smell of the earth, does it also have the smell of spring on the body?" ”

Then I began to inspire Sweetie again, asking her, "Since spring has a taste, is there a sound in spring?" Sweet thought about it, shook her head, and said she didn't know. I told her, "The sound of birds chirping is the sound of spring, and birds are sending the news of spring to all people." "So is there any color in spring?" I continued to ask Sweetie.

"I know, is this green?" Sweet replied. "Yes, spring is green." I gave her an affirmative answer.

I firmly believe that these materials in life are very important to Sweetie. Girls sometimes ask seemingly childish questions, and if we ignore them or even respond rudely, then it will ultimately hurt the girl's heart. Responding positively to her questions can enrich the girl's knowledge reserves and build a good relationship with her.

In fact, in the final analysis, the process of being friends with girls is the process of parents constantly improving, and it is also a process of parents and girls learning and progressing together. I also learned a lot from Sweetie, such as being strong, open-minded and optimistic.