As soon as he entered the door of the Zheng family and saw that Zheng Juan on the kang looked like that, his sympathy was immediately swept away by wild impulses. At that time, it was as if sympathy was the tender grass of the heart, and that wild impulse was the flamethrower. ”
This is the scene when Zhou Bingkun first met Zheng Juan in the original work of "Human World", and the scene in the TV series is very consistent with the original work.
Zheng Juan wore a dark brown low-neck cardigan, up to the knees, revealing slender calves, her hair was tied with two loose braids, and the sun poured in from the window, illuminating her whole person soft and feminine, exuding a full femininity.
Zhou Bingkun fell in love with Zheng Juan at first sight, such a beauty, no one dislikes, from then on, Zheng Juan became a concern in Zhou Bingkun's heart.
First, the fate of the jade bracelet
Zheng Juan and her brother were both "picked up" by their mother, watching her mother sell popsicles alone, she had to help sell them together. Once, she was teased by the bad boy, Tu Zhiqiang saw the righteousness and courage, and she promised herself.
I thought I had found a dependency, but I didn't expect Tu Zhiqiang to be with him, just to hide his sexual orientation. Zheng Juan was forcibly occupied by Luo Shibin, and she became pregnant only once, she did not want to leave the child behind, but her mother did not let her, and Nan Nan was born.
She and Tu Zhiqiang did not have a license, so she was not a real widow, but it was a very humiliating thing for her to get pregnant before marriage. The most important thing for a woman is fame, and a woman like her will be disliked by people, and no one will want it at all.
Zhou Bingkun took a fancy to her, and he thought that he knew that his parents would not agree to Zheng Juan's entry into the door, but he still made up his mind to marry her.
When the time was not ripe, all he could do was to help Zheng Juan as much as possible and send them money every month. After Luo Shibin and Shui Ziliu were arrested, in order to continue to send money to Zheng Juan's family, he secretly sold a pair of jade bracelets that his grandmother passed on to his mother.
"If the parents hadn't left such a pair of jade bracelets for the family, after Shui Ziliu and Luo Shibin were sentenced, Bingkun's relationship with Zheng Juan would definitely have been broken, no matter how much he was in love." He could not continue to help her, and there was no reason to convince himself that his love for her was undeniable. ”
The 1200 yuan exchanged for the jade bracelet gave him the ability to continue to help Zheng Juan, without this pair of jade bracelets, Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan would probably not have a future.
Second, life is not good, people are very good
Bingkun's mother has a crush on Chunyan, she has always hoped that Chunyan can marry Zhou Bingkun, Chunyan is indeed a good woman, but compared with Zheng Juan, Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun are more suitable.
Chunyan is particularly able to endure hardships, will also come to things, has a very bold personality, speaks straight, and will live a life. Chunyan later became the deputy director of the District Women's Federation, married Chunyan, and had a good life. If it is just to find a woman to live a life, Chunyan is suitable.
Zhou Bingkun also read a lot of foreign literature with his brother and sister, he is looking forward to love, and Chunyan does not meet his requirements for choosing a mate.
Zheng Juan is just a widow in a poor family, why is it so that Zhou Bingkun can't forget it?
In the original book, it is written very clearly:
First, Zheng Juanmei surprised him, it was the type of beauty he was thinking about; second, he was not neatly dressed, uncombed and unwashed, and extremely tempted by the opposite sex; third, he was not worse than Tu Zhiqiang, why did Tu Zhiqiang have such a beauty, but he couldn't? Fourth, she was mean, making him feel elevated and had the urge and pleasure to conquer.
These are the feelings that Chunyan can't give Zhou Bingkun, Chunyan looks more robust, not as feminine as Zheng Juan, and Zheng Juan captures Zhou Bingkun's heart with her appearance.
"She seems to be such a woman, as long as she trusts someone, there is no hiding from that person." She is not like Chunyan, Chunyan has a heart, she never has. ”
In addition to beauty, Zheng Juan has a particularly beautiful trait, and Zhou Bingyi saw it when he saw her: strong self-esteem, kindness, and good character.
In addition to a bad life, a woman like Zheng Juan is very popular with men.
Third, a good wife is the best "feng shui" for men
After getting married, Zheng Juan's performance further proved that Zhou Bingkun chose the right one.
sensible
Zhou Bingkun spent 1600 yuan to buy a house, and later found out that he was deceived, and Zheng Juan's performance surprised Zhou Bingkun:
Zheng Juan has no complaints about Bingkun, and nine times out of ten wives, in this case, it is inevitable that she will blame her husband for not doing things well. Zheng Juan did everything to comfort her, only to say that she should spend money to buy lessons. ”
Zheng Juan hardly complains about her husband, because she has enough trust and love for Bingkun, so she will consider the problem from the perspective of the other party, and will not only care about her own feelings.
Such a woman is sensible, will not be unreasonable, and men do not have to work hard to cope when they go home.
Contentment
"She always consciously compares her current life with her life in Taiping Hutong, and there is no reason for her unhappiness."
Zheng Juan's family is very poor, but she is not so eager for money, and she has some money in her hands, which she wants to spend on her mother-in-law, husband and children.
Zhou Bingkun asked her why she didn't buy herself something? She said, "I don't lack anything!"
Some people like money because they want the person she loves to live better, not for their own enjoyment, and Zheng Juan is this kind of person.
Broad-minded
Compared with most men, women like to be calculating, especially like to calculate, Zheng Juan is different, her heart is more open than many men.
"She's not like Wu Qian, Wu Qian is too careful with her eyes." She is also not like Yu Hong, Yu Hong has a strong sense of self-protection, and she is always afraid that she will be calculated in something and suffer losses. ”
She gave her family's house to catch up with the family for nearly 30 years, did not collect rent, and later when the demolition, Chao Chao used her house for a set of buildings, her request was only a pair of yellow cowhide shoes.
If it is another woman, it is already rare to give someone else a free time to live, let alone not to take it back when demolishing.
filial
Zheng Juan treats her in-laws like her own parents, and when the New Year comes back for the New Year, she is pregnant and busy Chinese New Year's Eve meal without complaint.
Yu Hong and Wu Qian can't do it, even Chun yan can't do it, she can't do it as a mother-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.
Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Zhigang gambled not to speak, and Zheng Juan acted as a peacemaker, and she advised Zhou Bingkun to take the initiative to reconcile with her father.
She regarded the Zhou family as her own home, and her in-laws as her parents, and Zhou Bingkun saw her efforts, so he also cherished her more.
Whether a wife is good or not determines whether the atmosphere of this family is good or not, and Zheng Juan is obviously a good wife. Inside her lord, she takes good care of the family, and when Zhou Bingkun encounters trouble outside, she will actively enlighten.
"As long as this woman is still his wife, as long as she still lives with him, she will happily love life and happily be his good wife, a good daughter-in-law of the Zhou family, and a good mother of two sons according to her standards."
Zhou Bingkun married Zheng Juan, it is his blessing, having a good wife, will the family be harmonious, Zheng Juan at home, is the Zhou family's "good feng shui".
Fourth, the nobles of the Zhou family
Zheng Juan was originally a widow that no one wanted, and it was Zhou Bingkun who "picked" her up and took her home, so that she could live a normal life and have a safe haven.
With the passage of time, Zheng Juan became the benefactor of the Zhou family.
Since Zheng Juan promised to take care of his mother and his niece for Bingkun, she has taken care of her. She also had to fulfill the responsibilities of her sister and mother, and it was not difficult to imagine the hardships of those two years. ”
Without Zheng Juan, when Bingkun's mother was paralyzed, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong would not be able to study with peace of mind, and even one person would drop out of school.
Zhou Rong later also studied graduate school at Peking University, and her daughter was also taken care of by Zheng Juan, and Zhou Rong later had a good life, and she should thank Zheng Juan.
Zhou Bingyi married Hao Dongmei and became a door-to-door son-in-law, Hao Dongmei could not have children, Zheng Juan gave birth to a son Zhou Cong, which made Zhou Bingyi have a great wish in his heart, and the Zhou family had someone to inherit the lineage.
In the original work, Zhou Bingyi is basically not in the local area because of work reasons, Zhou Rong stayed in Beijing for 7 years, she went to France for her daughter for 12 years, the most unproductive Zhou Bingkun in the family did filial piety for them, Zheng Juan is the most important practitioner.
Although she paid so much for the Zhou family, she never felt unbalanced in her heart, she did not ask her brothers and sisters to return the favor, but was proud of them, and she was proud to live in such a family.
Therefore, Zheng Juan is not only a good wife, but also a good daughter-in-law, with her, everyone in the Zhou family has received "benefits".
At last:
Zheng Juan's goodness, in addition to her own good character, is also because Zhou Bingkun is good to her, when she was in such a difficult situation, Zhou Bingkun did not abandon her, regardless of the gossip of others, and married her home.
If there is no Zhou Bingkun, she will not be able to live a good life, the child will also be given away, marry a person who does not cherish her, and live a life without dignity all day.
The Zhou family is also very kind, and the zhou family's parents are also reasonable people, and their affirmation of Zheng Juan makes Zheng Juan willing to be a good daughter-in-law.
Zhou Bingkun was Zheng Juan's benefactor, and Zheng Juan became a nobleman of the Zhou family.
Author: Muzi
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