Chun Yan was a small girl ring in YiHong Courtyard, she did not have the scenery of Qingwen and Raiders, nor was she as favored as the later Fangguan. But Chun Yan is conscientious and human, but she has the ability to see, so in the Yihong Courtyard, her popularity is still good. The big and small rings don't hate and don't exclude her.
Chun Yan was born in the family, and her mother was Fang Guan's dry wife He Baozi. Baoyu has a famous saying that daughters are made of flesh and bones made of water, and married women have many bad problems. No matter how old I am, it is a fish eye. This phrase is used to describe He Baozi, but it is also appropriate. He Pozi is a widow, with two daughters to live, only see money in the eyes, the most favorite thing to do is to take advantage, such a mother, let Chunyan is very faceless.
The same family has children, look at the mother of Liu Wu'er, it is simply one in heaven and one in the earth. Sister-in-law Liu took good care of her daughter as a pearl in her hand, whether in material or spiritual terms, Liu Wu'er got much more than Chunyan.
Looking at Chunyan's original family, it is really unfortunate. Without a father, there is only this one rude and shallow, selfish and annoying mother. He Pozi can be called a goose plucking hair, whether she can take advantage of it, she wants to catch a handful. For the dry daughter Fangguan, He Pozi can also bully and squeeze, obviously took Fangguan's monthly routine money, but even the shampoo let Fangguan use the rest of his daughter, saying that it is not too much to say that it is abuse. No wonder Fangguan shouted at her and rose up to resist.
Although she grew up in such an environment, Chunyan did not become a person like her mother. When He Baozi beckoned her daughter to wash her hair, Chun Yan refused, saying that she had monthly money and did not need Fangguan's sister. Instead, the younger sister Little Dove farted upside down. Chun Yan is reasonable, knows right and wrong, other people's things, she will not take it for herself, not greedy for that little cheap. For this reason, she was instead complained by He Baozi, thinking that this child was stupid and not a heart with herself.
He Pozi also brought a lot of trouble to Chunyan. Originally, Chunyan was working in Yihong Courtyard, so what is Yihong Courtyard? The daughter can enter the Yihong Courtyard, but it is not like burning high incense, how to pay attention to the image. But He Pozi who was in charge of three seven twenty-one, wanted to bully Fang Guan, wanted to shout loudly, did not take the people of Yihong Courtyard in his eyes at all, even Bao Yu was in front of him, and refused to admit defeat.
Things got big, but they were not interesting, so they had no face. Jia Baoyu led a group of Yahuan to support Fangguan, where could He Baozi stand up? Her lonely, gray and slippery appearance made people angry and funny. And what else can Chunyan say in the face of such a stupid mother who does not know how to advance or retreat? I'm afraid I can't wait to find a seam to drill into, right?
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", there is also a particularly vulgar mother, Aunt Zhao, who has nothing to do to add to the blockage of her daughter Tanchun. Tanchun always cleans up the mess for Aunt Zhao, is dragged down by Aunt Yue, and is discussed behind her back. In fact, Chunyan also encountered similar troubles, although she is only a yahuan, but the generation gap between the two generations, as well as different three views, make them unable to understand each other. He Pozi did not like her daughter to turn to outsiders, and Chun Yan did not understand He Pozi, why was her mother like this?
Chun yan has always helped not to help relatives, and she admits that her mother and aunt are getting older and older, and the more they take money seriously, which is a manifestation of dissatisfaction. In the past two years, they have entered the Yihong Courtyard, and they have also been sent to the care of LixiangYuan, and the economy is also rich, but they are still not tired. Chun yan talked about her family and relatives in front of others, there was no favoritism, no complaints, she had a pair of wise eyes, and she could see everything clearly. Every family has a difficult scripture to read, but how many people can be as transparent and sober as her?
He Pozi fell into the eyes of money, but did not pay much attention to her daughter. There wasn't much communication between her and Chunyan. Chun Yan entered the Yihong Courtyard and often advised her mother not to cause trouble, but where could He Baozi listen to her daughter's words? Whether it is a daughter or a daughter, if you don't agree with a word, He Baozi will scold and fight. Chun Yan was definitely not beaten by He Baozi.
She was not like Liu's sister-in-law, who whispered softly to Liu Wu'er, for fear of blowing her daughter down. As long as He Pozi felt that Chunyan was disobedient and did not understand things, it was directly solved by force. Even if Chun Yan has already divided the room, she is also a teenage girl, He Pozi can disregard the face of herself and her daughter, treat Jia Fu as her own home, and beat up her daughter, regardless of the occasion!
Chun yan is well-behaved, clever, smooth at work, no bright future, but also smooth. Being able to mix like this in Yihong Courtyard is also a matter for Chunyan to come. When Chunyan found out in Liuyezhu that Xue Baochao's yahuan warbler had picked fresh willow leaves and flowers to play with, she kindly advised Ying'er that her aunt was in charge of the land and that no one was allowed to fold it at will. Ying'er was not convinced, thinking that usually there was no one in the Baochao room to send the flowers and plants in the excesses, and now he folded some of them himself, and it was not a problem.
Chun Yan couldn't say anything more, didn't want Aunt Xia Pozi to come, her heart ached with those flowers and grasses, she couldn't say anything about the warblers, so she sprinkled her anger on Chun Yan, and scolded and beat her again. Coincidentally, He Pozi also came to find Chun Yan, asking Chun Yan to scoop water, and as a result, Xia Pozi sued Chun Yan. He Pozi's heart was also uneven because of Fang Guan's anger, and she hated Chun Yan for not fulfilling her heart, so she came up directly with an ear scraper, and scolded Chun Yan very hard to hear. Chun Yan rushed to the Yihong Courtyard, and He Baozi chased after her, but she slipped and fell, causing everyone to laugh.
He Pozi was not a system, Musk Yue asked someone to ask Ping'er to take care of it, He Pozi softened as soon as she heard it, and she begged for people and others, and she also told her daughter Chunyan, "Originally it was to beat you, Rao did not beat you, and now I have suffered against you." Good boy, you're begging for me! "At this time, where is there still a little arrogance?" He Pozi was ugly in front of everyone, and the way she confessed was also funny.
Chunyan has such a mother, neither decent, nor feel any warmth, from time to time, but also to her some "surprises", her heart, certainly not a taste. Chun yan is very objective and admits that her mother has many problems, but even so, Chun Yan never resents her mother. On the contrary, for her mother, He Baozi, in addition to good guidance, she actually carries full of care and love.
Although He Pozi beat Chunyan when she had nothing to do, she was just a rude mother-in-law, how much insight and cultivation could she have? He Pozi was a widow unemployed, and before Chunyan did not enter Yihong Courtyard, before she was assigned to work, her life must have been very sad. This also made her develop a stinky disease of loving greed and cheapness, and the beads must be compared. But that doesn't mean she's a heinous bad person. He Pozi is not a gentle and considerate good mother, and even if there is a bad heart, she will still take out her anger on her daughter, but there is no overnight feud between mother and daughter, and it will be over.
He Pozi is not a person who is completely unreasonable. Later, when her daughter Chunyan advised her, she could also listen to it. The mother and daughter went to Baochao's room to apologize, and on the way back, there was talk and laughter, and He Baozi said that her daughter's words were very reasonable and should be listened to. Her answer was quite funny and cute, "Little hoof, you go!" As the saying goes: 'Without a thing, there is no wisdom.' Now that I know, it's time for you to ask me again. This is very different from the previous image of the unreasonable and messy mother-in-law.
Chun Yan also told her mother to tell her to keep to herself, and revealed that Bao Yu promised that in the future, the people of Yihong Courtyard would go back to his wife and let him go out, and he would go to his parents. This He Pozi listened to the great joy and recited the Buddha endlessly. Although there are usual contradictions, the mother and daughter are one heart in the end, and the relationship between mother and daughter is more intimate than estranged.
Chun Yan is considerate of her mother, who has been widowed for many years, but it is not easy. Although she will also feel depressed and angry because of what He Baozi has done, she will never get angry, which proves a sentence: hitting is a love. With the benefits, Chunyan will always think of her mother.
The Liu family made a nutritional package for Fangguan, and Fangguan was too greasy to eat, but Jia Baoyu felt that it was very delicious. Chun Yan dipped the light of these two people, and under Baoyu's order, she also ate half a bowl of soup and rice. Bao Yu asked her to eat again, she only said enough, but deliberately left two rolls of crisp, saying that this was reserved for my mother to eat. What a warm move!
Chunyan never minded her native family, for a fierce, foul-mouthed mother He Pozi, she is also from the heart of love, the life of the bottom people is not easy, and Chunyan's body, but let people feel a sense of joy and peace.
In this pair of mothers and daughters, there is the meaning of making good bamboo shoots, but Chunyan has never abandoned her mother, she loves an imperfect life, but also loves an imperfect mother, which is more like the life of our ordinary people. Having such a filial and intelligent daughter is also a blessing for He Baozi!
Author: Ah Wu, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.