I have to say that as the story slowly progresses, the plot of "The World of Man" is getting closer and closer to our lives, at least very close to my life.
Especially during the Spring Festival and The New Year that year, many people in the barrage were saying that Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong did nothing when they went home, and Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingyi were tired and half dead, which was completely my life now——
Because I and the second brother have a job, the home is located elsewhere, so there is no "child big family" this saying, I am still a little stronger, because the work is local, every three forks and five can also go back to the hometown to see, the second is far away from the province, it is not easy to go home once, so basically only the old and young at home.
Two years ago, after the efforts of the old and young, after renovating the house in my hometown, I had less time to go back to my hometown, not for anything else, but because I was not used to it.
When I used to go home, I could still do housework, but after the renovation of the house, I even had to do cleaning, I had to find brooms all over the house, as for cooking, it was even more difficult, to say a face, I even had to ask my parents where the dishes at home were placed. After a long time, my parents did not expect me.
Therefore, every time I went home for the Chinese New Year, I was like a guest, watching the old and young people busy inside and outside.
Of course, what makes me feel the most heart-wrenching is the section where Zhou Zhigang took the child to visit the New Year, obviously Zhou Bingkun is the child who pays the most for this family, but everyone only sees the brilliance of Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong, but ignores Zhou Bingkun and stabs Zhou Bingkun's heart alive.
In last night's updated plot, this contradiction broke out, because Zhou Bingyi had a temper tantrum against his father, which hurt the old man's heart, plus Zhou Bingkun has not been able to pass the inner hurdle, so when facing Zhou Bingyi, Zhou Bingkun did not have a good voice.
Screenshot of the TV series "The World"
Many people said that under the circumstances at that time, Zhou Bingyi should divorce Hao Dongmei for two reasons-
First, Hao Jinlong's family is too impersonal, obviously they are relatives, but the relationship between the two families is not as good as strangers, and they have suffered a lot of grievances in vain.
The second is that Hao Dongmei can't have children, he is still reluctant to be with Hao Dongmei, he has wronged himself in vain, and will let the Zhou family "break the incense", although Zhou Bingkun has a son, but the parents still hope to have more grandchildren.
First of all, although The Hao Jinlong family does not have much human touch, we have to admit that Hao Jinlong is indeed a good leader, and as a political figure, he should have cherished his feathers.
As for the second, we do not deny that it was Zhou Bingyi who sacrificed his future to protect his love with Hao Dongmei, but I think that as a modern person, it is somewhat outdated to talk about whether or not he can have children.
In other words, even if Hao Dongmei can't have children, there will be many people willing to marry her, insisting that Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei are not worthy of anyone, how to see that there are suspicions of picking bones in eggs.
However, this is not difficult to understand, after all, the positions are different, the choices are different.
Chinese New Year's Eve day, Zhou's mother said Hao Dongmei, saying that Hao Dongmei would be good if it was a photon film, Zhou Zhigang couldn't help but say two sentences, in order not to stimulate his mother, Zhou Bingyi stifled his father twice.
Originally, this matter was said to be fine, but in the first year of the first year, Zhou Bingyi did not stay at home for long, in the second year of the first year, he accompanied Hao Dongmei to accompany Hao Jinlong to them, and in the third year of the junior high school, one after another, someone looked for Hao Jinlong to "report work", and waited until the guests left, Zhou Bingyi went home to visit his parents.
Just out of the gate of the compound, they met Zhou Bingkun and they came to visit Qu Xiuzhen, but they were stopped by the doorman.
Because Zhou Bingyi opened his mouth, everyone was able to go in, and everyone praised Zhou Bingyi's energy and ability, except for Zhou Bingkun.
(The villain said that at this time, Zhou Bingkun was somewhat suspected of inferiority.) ）
Zhou Bingyi called Zhou Bingkun aside and asked about his parents. The brothers did not say two words, Zhou Bingkun reminded Zhou Bingyi that he might face the problem of having children after he went back, and Zhou Bingyi did not agree.
I don't know which tendon Zhou Bingkun is wrong, and when he opened his mouth, he satirized his brother for caring about the identity of the governor's son-in-law, and zhou Bingyi was so angry that he kicked him over.
Although he has always liked Zhou Bingkun, but in this matter, I really don't blame Zhou Bingyi for being angry, when Zhou Bingyi could understand his choice, now he said this about his brother, but forgot that in the whole thing, Zhou Bingyi was actually quite difficult.
After returning home, Zhou Bingyi had a second heart-to-heart conversation with his father (the first time was for Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Juan), and Zhou Bingyi first said about the child and took the responsibility on himself.
Some people say that Zhou Bingyi's approach is too desperate, but I personally feel that Zhou Bingyi is the most responsible for doing so.
If Zhou Zhigang knew that Hao Dongmei could not have children, although he might not force his son to divorce, he would undoubtedly plant a bomb at home and collapse one day. Further, if Zhou Zhigang really wants his son to divorce, he is bound to push Hao Dongmei into the fire pit.
Zhou Bingyi did this, although it would make his father sad, but the two weighed the lesser, at this time the Zhou family already had Feng Yue's granddaughter, Zheng Juan was also pregnant, Zhou Zhigang was not particularly desperate.
Zhou Zhigang told Zhou Bingyi that he didn't know when to start, and he was a little afraid of Zhou Bingyi.
As soon as the words fell, Zhou Bingyi was nervous, he did not think in any way, his words would cause such a great harm to his father, and he hurriedly told his father that in his heart, his father was always the biggest, and he was always a child who did not grow up.
Because Zhou Zhigang said that Zhou Bingyi is his most important child, many people are complaining that the old man is unfair to Zhou Bingkun, in my personal opinion, things may not be the case, among the three children of the Zhou family, Zhou Bingyi is the most valued, Zhou Rong is the most pampered, and Zhou Bingkun is the closest to his parents.
In fact, there is no contradiction between the closest and the most important, because the instrument is looking at the ability, and the closeness to this thing is the feeling.
It's just that when we were young, we didn't understand this, and we always complained that our parents were unfair, and only after we became parents did we understand these truths, but by then, it was too late.
Zhou Zhigang told Zhou Bingyi about his experience, because his casual gear made his grandfather almost fall, and since then, his father felt that he had grown up and made him the head of the family.
In fact, I also had such an experience, when I was eighteen years old, when I was eating with my father, my father casually handed me a cigarette, and I began to understand that at that time, my father had regarded me as an equal to him.
After some exchanges, the misunderstanding between the two grandfathers and children disappeared, although there is no child, it is always a regret, but the grandfather and the children can talk about it, far better than holding everything in their hearts.
Somehow, in my intuition, Zhou Zhigang should have guessed that Hao Dongmei could not have children, but he did not debunk it.
Just when the grandfather and son were talking vigorously, Zhou Bingkun came back, saw his brother and father drinking, and talked very happily, plus Zhou Zhigang let him go into the house, he was very uncomfortable, turned around and went out, and when Zheng Juan returned, he began to yin and yang strangely.
Zhou Bingyi came out to persuade Zheng Juan to enter the house, he kicked Zhou Bingyi, returned the morning kick, the brothers fought together again, Zhou Zhigang came out, and gave Zhou Bingkun a punch.
In fact, this matter can not all blame Zhou Zhigang, after all, this matter at night was indeed provoked by Zhou Bingkun, and Zhou Zhigang did not know about the morning thing.
Because of this, Zhou Zhigang and his younger son also had a gap.
Later, when Zhou Zhigang left home, he and Zhou Bingkun also talked once, but unlike the original conversation with Zhou Bingyi, the dialogue between the grandfather and the son, although it was also a heart-to-heart, was the kind of sword.
Many people are blaming Zhou Zhigang for being too cruel, obviously Zhou Bingkun did not enter the university is too much of a burden on the family, to take care of the comatose mother, but also to take care of two children, but Zhou Zhigang said that these are the steps that everyone found for him, even if he wants to go to the exam, he can't pass the exam.
From the perspective of adults, looking at the dialogue between the two grandfathers and children, we will find that Zhou Bingkun has paid the most for this family over the years, but thinking about it, is Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong really so relaxed outside?
Moreover, although Zhou Bingkun is nominally a junior high school student, in fact he only has a primary school education.
It's just that they're not the protagonists and don't show their full experience.
Moreover, since the "New Year's Greeting Incident" occurred, Zhou Bingkun's mentality did have some problems, and if he did not wake him up in time, he would only continue to fall into such a cognition and would never come out.
At that time, Zhou Bingkun's life was really ruined.
Suddenly, I remembered a sentence that my mother had said—only close relatives would point out your problems to your face, leaving no room for you. Even if other people want to say something about you, they will leave some leeway.
(Originality is not easy, if there is a reprint, please indicate the source.) ）