Prince Albert II of Monaco wants to pinch another ice pier for the Winter Olympic mascot
A few days ago, the Olympic staff pinched an ice pier for Albert II, and then the prince asked the staff to help him pinch another one, because he had twins, and it was not easy to take one ice pier home to explain to the children.
Some netizens commented that they were highly praised: the prince of the twin family, it is not easy to bring back an ice pier.
It seems that no matter where people are, parent-child relationship is an unavoidable issue. So how do we divide toys?
Albert II's choice should be: all the toys are one by one, so that everyone does not have to compete.
I have two nieces who did the same when I was seven or eight years old, and every time they brought gifts to see them, if the two gifts were different, there would be conflicts between the sisters, and this situation lasted for two years, and if we wanted to buy new things for them in those two years, the people we bought would definitely buy two identical, including New Year's clothes.
Another method was shared by a mother of three: She advises not to buy duplicate toys when buying toys for her children.
First, the purchase of duplicate toys wastes money and space, there are not many places to store toys at home, and then buy the same thing to occupy space;
Second, the toys that children like in different ages are not the same, if the children do not have special hobbies, Xiaobao can completely use the old toys left by Dabao;
Third, children playing with the same toys is conducive to cultivating the feelings between children and children's coordination ability;
These two methods seem to be somewhat contradictory, so should we buy the same toys for children?
My current understanding is that the two approaches are combined, and each child has different characteristics at different times, just like my two nieces, whose toys go through three stages:
Two people play with the same toy, they sometimes get along harmoniously, sometimes they compete for toys, sometimes they take turns playing;
Two people have the same thing, each taking care of their own toys;
The two have different toys, and those who want to play with each other's toys need to be exchanged.
I don't know what kind of attitude they will have towards toys in the future, but I think it is good to have such a variety of ways.
For some small gifts with commemorative significance, I think it is possible to buy one for each person, while some educational toys or things that can be done cooperatively only buy one, what do you think?
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