1. Do things in a principled way.
Some elderly people in the family have very rules, "no rules, no squares."
When the elderly educate children, they must first make rules for children, because many elderly people with children are brought with pampering and doting, so that children have no rules at all, so that children are failures in the process of growth.
After there are rules, the child will have a sense of restraint, do things with principles, and will not ask for things in an unreasonable way, which will help the child grow and let the child be a child with a tutor.
2. Conceptual innovation is not conservative.
Why is there tension in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law now? On the one hand, the reason for looking at children, the elderly have a set of parenting experience, the daughter-in-law has her own set of parenting experience, and the two people have different experiences, so there are differences.
But there is an old man in the family who likes to accept new things, and he can rest assured that the child will be brought to the elderly, because the old man will learn new parenting methods, so that he can rest assured.
3. Temperate and patient.
Everyone knows that taking children is a very tiring thing, when taking children, children will make a lot of angry times, but children are unintentional, so you can't be angry.
If the old man has a bad temper, the child will inevitably be beaten, but the old man with a gentle temper will give the child a reason, tell the child what to do and what not to do, which is conducive to the development and growth of the child's body and mind.