Introduction to this issue
What should I do if my child accumulates food and does not like to eat?
Since the launch of Teacher Zhu Baomin's "Pediatric Tuina Course", bao parents have always had various questions. But to sum up, the symptoms of children are various, and most of the root causes are still inseparable from the spleen, stomach and lungs.
The main fur of the lungs is the first barrier between the human body and the outside world. The lungs are insufficient, and there is a little wind and grass outside, and we will be affected.
"Cold drinks hurt your lungs." Therefore, before eating cold things, consider the ability of the child's body to transport, and when the child is sweating, pay attention not to blow the wind. In these aspects, parents are easier to understand after learning, and they will begin to change some of their previous parenting concepts. Occasionally did not notice, quickly use the massage technique to operate, you can also timely recuperation.
However, once it comes to the problem of accumulated food, it is not so easy to get out of the inertial thinking.
Many people are not very acceptable, eat too much will also get sick?
Fever, cough, repeated colds, how can this be because of eating too much? This is precisely to eat less, not enough nutrition, weak resistance. Can't eat, it's even more impossible because of eating too much, the child is sad to die without eating, and it is said that they eat too much? It's not a pit baby.
Especially the older generation, the more children eat, the happier they are.
Fifty or sixty years ago, material scarcity, and indeed more people were malnourished. In the generation of only children, the elders are still afraid that the children's nutrition is not enough, and the TV advertisements are all anemia and calcium deficiency advertisements, but no one thinks about whether the children are not eating enough or absorbing enough.
Presumably, many people have the experience of being chased and forced to eat when they were young, and they also have the experience of being praised for being able to eat, and after receiving praise, they will eat more loudly. Part of the reason is also a projection of the uneasiness that was missing from the previous generation, which may take at least another generation to digest.
"If you want to be safe, three points of hunger and cold", this parenting saying has been known to more and more people, but it is really not easy to do it.
First of all, we must accept the fact that eating too much hurts the spleen and stomach.
This kind of eating too much is for individuals, can not see that other people's children can eat a large bowl of rice, grow tall, they are anxious to let their children eat more. Eating more is not the reason why people are in good health, but because the spleen and stomach are strong and can be transported off, so the body is good. Eating too much, on the contrary, it is easy to cause a burden on the spleen and stomach, and it cannot be transported.
Moreover, even children who are breastfeeding will accumulate food. Many parents think that milk is the same as water, how much to drink is fine, as long as the child cries, they will feed, in fact, milk to drink too much, the same will cause food accumulation.
The problems caused by accumulated food are not only fever, cough, and repeated colds, but also tonsillitis, adenoidal hypertrophy, diarrhea, constipation, night sweats, anemia, restless sleep, night crying, love allergies and so on.
There is a word for the treatment of diseases in Chinese medicine, which is called "the same treatment of different diseases". Why do different diseases use the same treatment?
Because the types of diseases are endless, it is only that medical scientists have made different definitions and given different names according to the different manifestations of the body. These names are just concepts, but when we cure the disease, it is not the concept that we cure, but the body that we treat.
For example, cough and anemia, two concepts that seem to have nothing to do with each other, may be the same in essence. Because although the cough is a cough in the lungs, the source of sputum may be the spleen. The spleen and stomach problems will affect the production of qi and blood, and naturally cause anemia.
Knowing the reasons behind it, you can treat the accumulation of food, cultivate the spleen and stomach, and then treat the symptoms according to the different performance of the body, and finally achieve both symptoms and root causes.
Accepting the concept of accumulation of food and illness is only the first step, and it is far from enough to solve the problem of children's accumulation of food.
Often parents say in the group, Teacher Zhu, our children do not eat much.
Teacher Zhu is also quite helpless, which has an interesting logic: it is precisely because parents feel that children do not eat much, children will eat more. If parents can recognize that their children eat too much, there will not be so many children who have accumulated food.
Teacher Zhu said: "Children generally accumulate food for two reasons, one is that the child's nature is gluttonous, the stomach is full and the eyes are not full, if not properly controlled, it will accumulate food. Second, parents do not have a correct view of parenting, believing that children are growing up and need nutrition, and as long as children eat, they need to eat, or they are not full."
Some of the food accumulation, further exploration, there may be children's inner needs have not been actually seen by adults. If adults are willing to stand in the child's point of view, let go of the authority of parents, imitate the child, and feel the child's feelings, they may be able to see the real needs of the child.
How do you tell if your child is eating? Observing the tongue is a simple method of discrimination.
Below is normal tongue moss, mild accumulation of tongue, and heavy accumulation of tongue. Can you see if your baby has accumulated food?
Having said all this, most parents should have the correct cognition and understanding of the matter of eating enough, but some people will worry that they will start to adjust their spleen and stomach for their children now, but what should they do if the child still does not eat during this time? If you don't eat, you're going to be malnourished, right?
In fact, our bodies are often smarter than we are and have their own ideas. Teacher Zhu also comforted the vast number of worried parents: "Children may have the phenomenon of not loving to eat every once in a while, parents cannot be in a hurry, this may be the body is self-regulating, first observe for a few days, this period will not cause malnutrition."
The children will start school soon, the shops near the school will be lively again, the children will eat sea plugs uncontrollably when they have pocket money, and all kinds of cold drinks, cream, fried, meat, snacks, etc. are overwhelmed.
However, appetite is a big problem in life, and it cannot be changed at once. It is too harsh, and then it is emotionally depressed, and it is not worth the loss.
Therefore, it is okay to eat in moderation, in case you accidentally eat too much, hurry up and use pediatric massage to condition it!
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