No wedding, no wedding dress, only a plate of shredded potatoes for the wedding!! After twelve years of marriage, one of the most regrettable things is that I didn't listen to my mother!!
When I was in college, I talked about a boyfriend, who was the younger brother of the sister of the same school, people are very good, we both prepared for the graduate school together, and as a result, the school and professional competition I applied for was too big, and I fell off the list, and my boyfriend was transferred to Yunnan. After failing to pass the graduate school, I found a job in Beijing, and I did it without being salty or light. Unfortunately, the hottest love also slowly lost to time, a year and a half later we broke up, in the months before the breakup, my heart is also extremely uncomfortable, every day after work is to fold a thousand paper cranes, 5cm * 5cm origami, each one before folding I will write a mood, the most written words are: "I miss you, want to be with you every day." In the end, I don't know how many were folded, anyway, the fingernail-sized thousand paper cranes I put a whole suitcase, I bought a suitcase to see him. Love lost to time, the folded thousand paper cranes were not sent out, and when I moved in the first two years, I inadvertently turned it over, and the tears instantly drowned me, and I burned all the fires with a fierce heart.
The object of marriage is introduced by the old family, in fact, it is still very impulsive to think about it now. At that time, the ex-boyfriend came back to me, wanted to compound, at that time I was talking with the current old justice, I don't know who said it, how can a graduate student look up to her as an undergraduate, I misunderstood I thought this was the ex-boyfriend or their relatives said, I have always been relatively strong, in my bones I don't want anyone to look down on, I was angry when I heard this sentence, and immediately married my current husband. After getting along after marriage, I slowly found that what I said was actually what my mother-in-law said, she spoke upside down, unreasonable, the bones of the patriarchal preference, talking always feel that the husband's family is the largest, the woman should serve the man, so there are many contradictions between us after marriage.
Think about the beginning when we were not married, my husband and I secretly went to get a license, and the next day my husband had a fight with my mother, when my mother gave me a slap in the face, saying that I would regret it in the future, I would meet such a husband's family, in the future, I would suffer, let me divorce immediately, I was dizzy, I was dizzy, I did not listen to my mother's words, even if the wedding was not done, even if I got married. In fact, originally set a day to get married, the result of that day the husband said that their unit is not allowed to ask for leave, I said it is okay, I rushed from Beijing to his work unit, over the wall to their dormitory, he ordered a box of leek egg dumplings, a fried potato shredded even if it is married! Now think about yourself is really stupid, now married for twelve years we often have quarrels, he will scold people first every time, my family has been educated more strictly since childhood, I basically curse people will not say, my mother-in-law was known as the first scolding woman in the village when she was young, my husband followed the dirty words in his mouth, I really don't want to live with him now, I feel that every day is very torturous. In the days after the marriage, we quarreled without saying three words, and the children sometimes covered their ears in fear, and I was also very miserable, I didn't want the children to lose their fathers, and I didn't want to continue to live such a life! Every day I want to be separated, and now the two have been separated for five months, I don't know when such a day will be a head!! [Tears] [Tears]
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