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Accepting children's emotional expressions is not easy for many parents. The desire to suppress children's strong emotions is often a major reason for parents' own emotional impact. When a child has emotions

author:Groves in the fog

Accepting children's emotional expressions is not easy for many parents.

The desire to suppress children's strong emotions is often a major reason for parents' own emotional impact.

When children have emotions, parents often try to soothe their children's emotions without taking care of their own emotions. Instead, they get annoyed and then treat the child with bad emotions. A vicious circle is formed. In this way, children may cry more badly, and adults are also angry.

At this time, the most important thing for parents is to take care of their emotions, let the children's emotions fluctuate, stabilize themselves, and watch the fire from the other side, which is not selfish, so that it is best for their children.

Taking care of parents themselves and regulating their emotions is the most important thing for every parent. This is not selfishness. It's important that this isn't selfish. This is the first important thing to be a parent.

Emotions should be loose, not blocked, not suppressed. Give yourself time and relax. This is more important than the child's grades, and this is more important than the child's food, clothing, shelter and transportation. Only by taking good care of the little children in our own hearts can we better take care of our children and take care of our families.

Start today, start now. Take better care of yourself. This is everyone's number one priority. Especially at the beginning of this new year.

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