"Hope son jackie chan" "hope girl into phoenix"
It is the good expectation of many parents for their children
However, the expectations are too high or too low
Will lead family education astray
According to the child's physical and mental development rules
Science sets expectations for children
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Bad tendencies to only score and only go to school
Parents take test scores as the only criterion for measuring the quality of their children's learning, and one-sided pursuit of high scores and rankings will bring excessive mental pressure to their children, and even make children have psychological problems such as inferiority and boredom. In fact, as long as children take learning as their own business, are willing to learn and learn seriously, the grades will improve. Parents should respect the child's age, intelligence, interest, personality and other characteristics, look farther, slow down the rhythm, so that the child feels encouraged and accompanied, rather than reprimanded and disappointed.
There's a kind of harm called "someone else's child."
Parents think this contrast is "motivating," but it's a disservice to their children. Parents should know how to respect the child's personality development, understand the child's characteristics, explore the child's advantages, and let the child learn to "compare with himself". Parents should help children set personalized goals according to their own quality and comprehensive ability, and encourage them in a timely manner to stimulate their children's subjective initiative, and find learning fun and development motivation from the child's interest points.
Let the child overburden the expectations of the parents
Reasonable requirements and goals are very necessary, but too high expectations, excessive pay, too much nagging, will only cause unnecessary pressure and anxiety to the child, become the child's resistance to progress, but also cause the child's behavior rebellion, parent-child tension, and even let the child give up on himself. Before setting your child's development goals, ask yourself: What are your truest expectations for your child? Is this expectation reasonable?
Lost yourself for the child
The focus of many families' lives revolves around their children, and parents spend a lot of energy and sacrifice almost all their spare time for the sake of their children. Parents are too concerned about their children, and it is easy to lose themselves and cause imbalances. While it is important to educate children, it is equally important to focus on oneself. Parents should put the focus back on themselves, moderately retain their own time, set life goals for themselves, and set an example for their children with actions.
Each child has their own rhythm of development
Hope parents learn to "loosen the shackles"
Respect the rules of your child's physical and mental development
See the nature and inner motivation of your child
Set development goals reasonably
Focus on all-round development
Support healthy growth
The source of the article | the All-China Women's Federation's Family and Children's Department, and the All-China Women's Federation Women's Voice
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