I want my children to win at the starting point, so that their future can have more possibilities. How do you win at the starting point? Most parents seem to have potential as long as they are more sensible, intelligent, or have some maverick skills than other children. Being able to recite multiple Tang poems at the age of two and knowing multiple Chinese characters at the age of three are the premises for parents to show off.
I don't know when, advanced learning is changing parents' thinking and destroying children's health. In principle, children of each age have different performances at this stage, and those who have read and learned early are not necessarily geniuses, but may also be the reasons for the strong persecution of their parents.
Even "advanced learning" has become a reason for parents to compare, and they do not know that many things cannot be learned and contacted early, otherwise the last to suffer losses and injuries must be children. I hope that parents understand that some inadvertent behaviors are the most deadly to their children.
These "advanced behaviors" don't steal the fun, hurry up and correct it
1. Walk early
From ten months, parents have deliberately trained their children to learn to walk, and have prepared a variety of toddler tools, including toddler belts, walkers and so on. The purpose is very simple, that is, to hope that children can take the first step in life, in principle, there is nothing wrong with cultivating walking, because this is a necessary step in the journey of life.
However, many parents let their children walk early because they think it is smarter to walk early. In fact, each child's physical development, and their desire to learn to walk, are different, and parents cannot be forced.
2. Study early
There are really very few geniuses, and the children who read and write and study early, they really live very tired. Although on the surface he was envied and praised by others, he made great efforts behind the scenes. And all this is actually based on the persecution of parents, not the child's willingness.
Start learning systematically early, and when you really enter the student period, children will either be proud and complacent, feel that they can do everything, and will not concentrate on learning at all; or they will be bored with school early and feel that school is too hard.
3. Learn musical instruments early
If you want your child to have a specialty, such a method is understandable, but the premise is based on their interests. How many parents base their ideas on their children and even let them realize their unfulfilled dreams. There are friends around to let children learn gourd silk, and the original intention is because they like...
Learning an instrument too early is really bad, you must know that the child's body is in the growth stage, if you learn the instrument at this time, it is likely to affect the bone and joint development of their hands. The most frightening thing is that musical instruments have to learn music theory knowledge, as well as staves, how can children of several years old understand it?
Follow your child's growth trajectory and don't let "learning ahead" ruin their interests and health. I believe that as long as the child really likes it, many things can be easily handled. At this stage, it is more important to cultivate their interests.