This New Year's Festival is indispensable to visit relatives and friends, children like to go to relatives, not only can go to strange places, but also eat a variety of delicious, the most important thing is that someone to play with themselves, there are red envelopes to take.
It is fun for children to visit relatives and friends, and adults to visit relatives and friends more to connect with feelings and see the elders who have taken care of themselves.
In the past, people generally attached great importance to righteousness, even if they were a little tired, now many people have weak feelings, you go to relatives to welcome you on the surface, and behind your back, you are eager to leave immediately.
Although it is good to go to relatives, it is actually a burden on others, especially to spend the night at other people's homes, not only to cook and entertain you, but also to tidy up your bedroom, which is really very tiring.
Especially some bear children who do not listen to discipline, they have damaged other people's things, relatives do not say that they are hindered by affection, small things do not matter, expensive things are very uncomfortable.
On January 24, a female netizen in Xinyang, Henan Province, shared her life and sent a short video to complain about relatives and children.
It turned out that relatives brought children to her house as guests, she was busy entertaining relatives, children played by themselves, and as a result, the children of relatives wasted tens of thousands of yuan of cosmetics.
After the video was sent, it quickly triggered a heated discussion among netizens, and many netizens said that they felt empathy, and when relatives and children smashed their own thousands of tablet computers, they finally failed.
There are also netizens who accuse this woman of not being a person, this kind of thing is said in private, even if it is posted to the Internet to complain, relatives have not to do it, and the children are not all for you to fall, or too young to understand the sophistication of human feelings.
Netizens immediately retorted, is it possible that the child has ruined things, because he is a child, can he be so righteous? Don't parents of such expensive things mean it?
According to the woman's own description, the relatives who came to visit were her distant cousins, and usually everyone was very busy, and they gathered once a year.
Originally everyone had not seen each other for a long time, and they were very happy to see each other, but they did not expect such a thing to happen in the end, and their tens of thousands of pieces of cosmetics were gone, and they were indeed uncomfortable.
The child brought by the other party is really very naughty, not afraid of birth at all, everything in the family must be touched, although some mind but the other party is a child, it is not easy to say anything.
Seeing that the time was almost time for dinner, he got up and went to the kitchen to cook for them, and his husband stayed with the guests, and no one noticed where the children went.
When everyone finished eating, they entered the bedroom and saw a tragic scene, the cosmetics were all over the place, and the bedroom could be said to be a mess.
At that time, he did not say it out loud, and whispered to his husband to the bedroom, hoping that his husband would tell them about this matter, after all, it was a relative on their side, but the husband felt that he was not good enough to come forward and refused.
Finally, I went out with my cousin and the couple, I thought that the other party should apologize if they didn't pay compensation, but the couple was completely inappropriate, so they said that the child was too naughty.
Before, at home, it was also a mess at home, and the couple conducted education many times, but there has been no effect, that is, it cannot be changed.
More than 10,000 of his cosmetics were destroyed in this way, but the other party did not show any expression, and at that time, hindered by her husband's affection, she held her breath back.
But the more I think about it afterwards, the more uncomfortable it is, after all, no one's money is blown by the wind, so I took a video and complained on the Internet.
There are two sentences in the "Three Character Classic": "If you do not teach, it is the fault of the father." The teaching is not strict, and the teacher is lazy. ”
Don't think that letting your children eat and drink is to fulfill your responsibilities, home is the first classroom of life, parents are the child's first teacher, must play its due role.
Parents should not only manage to eat and drink, but also help their children establish a correct three views, and if the child makes a mistake, help the child realize the mistake.
Destroyed more than 10,000 cosmetics of relatives, just a few words to think about things, but also said that the usual education many times, to see this education level is not good.
Don't think that the child is still young, make mistakes and tolerate it, sometimes let the child "lose face", let him realize the consequences of his actions, and then remember it for a long time.
Visiting relatives and friends must restrain their children, this is the responsibility of parents, empathize with it, if other people's children destroy your things, will you still be so easy?
Don't be afraid of what gets in the way, don't think that small things don't matter, some say principle issues, and more than 10,000 things have been a lot, stealing more than 3,000 is a crime.
Parents should educate their children well, they are reluctant to educate, and when they come to society, they will naturally have someone to help you educate.