Tutoring children to do homework is a headache for many parents, take our family, the sister sometimes at twelve o'clock in the middle of the night is still tutoring the little niece homework, the sister went to work for a day, very hard, sometimes it is inevitable to complain, do not want to tutor the child with homework, plus sometimes the child is not obedient, the sister is also very grumpy.
Tutoring children with homework is a problem for many parents, and some parents questioned the teacher because they tutored their children with homework, and last week they saw a father questioning the teacher in the middle of the night.
Xiao Zhou and his wife are civil servants, usually the wife tutors the child's homework, often counseling until the early morning, the next day to work, the wife often complains to Xiao Zhou, not only to review the content of today's learning for the child, but also to give the child a preview of what to learn tomorrow, work for so many years, a lot of knowledge has forgotten, and do not know how to teach the child, and counsel the child to prepare, the child has something that can not be learned at all.
Xiao Zhou did not understand why his wife tutored the child to do homework is so difficult, this night, he decided to personally tutor the child, he found that the child not only has to do the review questions left by the teacher, but also to prepare for a new lesson, do after-class practice questions, Xiao Zhou tutors the child until twelve o'clock, the child listens to not many things, he is very angry, directly in the class group to question the teacher: new knowledge I have taught the child, but also what do you want to do, see this sentence, the parent group directly fried the pan.
Xiao Zhou's words said a lot of parents' voices, everyone's situation is actually similar, tutoring children's homework will be very painful for parents, but do not know what to do, do not dare to tell the teacher, did not expect Xiao Zhou to say it directly, everyone has echoed below, indicating that it is too difficult to tutor children to write homework.
After the teacher saw Xiao Zhou's questioning, he apologized to the parents and said that he was not well considered, and promised that he would not assign so much homework to the child in the future, after this time, the amount of homework of the child was indeed reduced, but there were several children whose grades regressed a lot, because the child did not prepare, sometimes the class was distracted, and nothing would happen.
Many parents do not understand, why the teacher should arrange the pre-study task in advance, teaching the child is obviously the task of the teacher, there are many children who can not understand the knowledge of the next day, completely rely on the parents to explain to the child, the pressure all runs to the parents, the parents not only have to go to work, come back at night to be a teacher, prepare lessons how to lecture, teach children things, sometimes teach a night can not understand, but also angry.
The above parents' answers are a bit too heavy, as parents, understand the teacher's pain.
Teachers can not take care of every child, there are always some children slow to react, may not understand some knowledge, let the child prepare homework in advance can make the next day when learning more relaxed,
But the child is embarrassed to ask the teacher after class, there will be more and more things that will not be, the child's grades will decline, if you prepare in advance, you can prevent this situation from occurring.
Pre-study can also deepen the child's understanding of knowledge, improve the efficiency of the classroom, children are easy to inattentive, the teacher does not listen to the lecture when lecturing, they are distracted, a piece of knowledge will not be, and then do not ask the teacher, will not be more and more, from this point of view, the benefits brought by advance preparation are many, so it is beneficial for parents to take their children to prepare appropriately.
How should parents take their children to prepare?
First look at the child's basic situation, review the content of the child's learning today, check the omissions and fill in the gaps, some knowledge is based on the knowledge of the previous day, and parents must first teach the child the knowledge of the day before in order to teach the next day's knowledge.
When preparing for Language and English, first let the child recognize the new words, recognize the words, let the child draw the new words and phrases in the article, put the new words in the article to let the child understand the article, and let the child read it several times, and the child will understand more.
When learning mathematics, you can join life, let the child understand the mathematical formula first, and then you can give some easy-to-understand examples to the child, the child sometimes can not understand some terms, parents can help the child understand by giving examples of some real-life things.
Parents with children to prepare is also a method, if the method is right, parents may not be so hard, pre-study is good for children, parents can appropriately take the child to prepare, more patience with the child, do not always complain, after all, it is for their own children's good, parents must think more empathy, more understanding of the teacher.
At the same time, parents should not take the form of questioning the teacher in the class group when communicating with the teacher, so that the teacher will be very embarrassed, you can discuss with the teacher privately, such as the child's homework is too much, can it be reduced, the teacher will also listen to the parents' suggestions, sometimes questioning the teacher will make the teacher embarrassed, and the teacher's education method will not continue.
Parents and teachers say that for the sake of children's good, parents should also have more understanding of teachers, and talk to teachers well, which is also good for children.