La Roche Fuucco said: "The joy of love is in love, and enjoying love is happier than evoking love." ”
When we pursue a love, we will be excited, nervous, anxious, and enjoy the feeling. But when we have a beautiful and sincere love, in the process of enjoyment, we will find that the original happiness is more addictive and willing to fall into it.
However, how to have such a love is a problem that many people will be anxious about and thinking about.
In good love, each other will feel that each other is the best partner, can bring themselves happiness and happiness, and can also make themselves feel the charm of love.
At the same time, this kind of love can also make us continue to move forward, and make ourselves better, and we will love life more.
Such a partner will not only be very harmonious and tacit when getting along, but also know how to understand and respect each other, and can solve things hand in hand.
We all want to have such a soul mate, but in many cases, we don't know how to manage a relationship, how to get along, in order to achieve such a goal.
Belinsky said: "Love is the harmony and tacit understanding of two intimate souls in life and in the faithful, kind, beautiful things." ”
Between lovers, these three "sparks" collide when they are in contact, which can be regarded as soul mates.
01 When getting along, we will feel very harmonious and tacit with each other.
Regarding soul mates, Xu Zhimo once said such a classic sentence: "I will visit my only soul mate in the vast sea of people, and I am fortunate to have it; no, I am destined, and so on." ”
It follows from this how fortunate it is to meet a soul mate. Met, but also the happiness of our lives. With such a soul mate, we will feel the harmony and tacit understanding.
Two people will be very consistent in many ideas, will have a lot of common language, and can understand, tolerate and respect each other. In short, such love will bring you a good enjoyment, and it is easy for you to fall into it and find it difficult to extricate yourself.
Shakespeare also said: "Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a flower, not a honey word in the peach blossom source, not a light tear, nor a rigid compulsion, love is based on a common language." ”
The two people have a lot of common language, and naturally they can feel each other's spiritual fit. The stronger this feeling is, the happier and sweeter it will be in my heart.
This harmony when we get along can also make us more firm in this love, and we will be full of more expectations and hopes for the future.
02 Some words, some things, do not need too much verbal modification, each other can understand each other's intentions.
An Yiru has a beautiful-sounding sentence in "If Life Is Only Like the First Sight": "Words are meeting the right person in the right place, looking up at the heart, and the heart blossoms in an instant, just like a woman under a peach tree, she does not expect to meet anything, but she meets love between her hands." ”
In everyone's heart, they hope that they can meet such a person.
Some words in the heart do not need to be said too directly, the other party can also understand their own thoughts; some grievances and sadness, do not have to take the initiative to express it, the other party can also feel, and will resolve these grievances and sadness in time.
No matter how hard the road ahead is, two people together, as long as they can collide with this spark, many things will become easier.
At least, two people together will not be tired because of communication; they will not collapse because of their repressed emotions; and they will not affect the relationship because of some small things in life.
We don't have to worry about the hardships ahead, and we don't have to worry about the hardships of the present. Because we know very well in our hearts that we are lucky to meet such a soul mate. For other things, there is no need to demand it.
03 Each other will willingly give and work hard for this love.
Isakovsky said: "Love, this is not one heart to beat another heart, but the spark of two hearts colliding together." ”
We naturally understand this truth, but at the moment of encountering love, we can't take care of so much, and we only want to have this relationship as soon as possible, and leave the person in our hearts by our side as soon as possible.
In love, the more blind we are, the more we take the initiative to pay, and eventually it will backfire. Everything we give is worthless in the eyes of others; the sincerity of our efforts will make the other party feel too cheap.
Such a lover, of course, cannot be called a soul mate. Because their relationship has long been out of balance, it is impossible for both people to feel this happiness and be willing to enjoy it.
A true soul mate, for the sake of this relationship, will certainly be able to do a lot of things tacitly. They will take the initiative to pay for each other, will think about each other, and will also try to make themselves better, so as to make the relationship more stable.
Such a payment must be the joint effort of two people; such love must also be a two-way rush.
As Boccaccio put it: "True love inspires, awakens the sleeping strength and hidden talents within him." ”
We all know that soul mates are unattainable. Some people never meet that soul mate in their entire lives. And some people, at the right time, happen to meet the right person.
Some soul mates are fortunate to meet. Some soul mates are cultivated after working together.
When lovers get along, if they can collide with these three kinds of "sparks", they can be regarded as soul mates. When you meet such a person, remember to cherish it well and enjoy this happiness well.