In 2001, Liang Jing first heard the name Guan Hu.
Before coming to the crew, someone specially introduced her to the director.
Guan Hu was also mentioned in the Virgo movie of ten years ago.
Liang Jing did not think so, and said lightly that she did not know this person before.
When she arrived at the crew, a crowd of people was busy, and someone deliberately led her to a bearded man.
Very sloppy, not at all edged.
More crucially, he still had hair on his head at that time.
There's just a few left, sparse, and it looks even more sloppy.
Guan Hu held out his hand to her.
One second I didn't know about this person, and the next second I had a special feeling for him.
Liang Jing likes this kind of man in her heart, with a rough spirit on her body.
Guan Hu is an authentic Shandong native, one meter and nine heads, and he often roars and shouts in the crew.
It looks very rough, but as soon as I finish work every day, I will pull out my mobile phone to change my tone.
After listening to him intermittently for a few days, Liang Jing knew that he called his parents every day.
At this moment, he poked at her heart again.
She turned to look at herself, leaving her hometown of Fuzhou, running around every day,
But the phone calls to parents are often only one in two weeks.
Sometimes I forget that my parents still have to call her.
Looking at this rough old man, there is such a soft and gentle side,
Liang Jing unconsciously added a lot of points to him in his heart.
Because she liked it, she began to understand him from the side.
Although Guan Hu is a native of Shandong, he grew up in Beijing with his parents.
His father was a master in the literary and art world, which greatly affected Guan Hu's career choices.
Since he was a child, he has been playing big in the compound.
The bag contained slabs, spring locks and even kitchen knives, which were the standard for walking alleys in their time.
In adolescence, he likes to wear flared pants and is keen on fighting.
There are obvious traces of the times, but when he really grows up, he likes to pay attention to the bottom of the hutong.
Especially in the field of literature and art, when he first debuted, he was ambitious.
Liang Jing later heard that the first movie "Hair Is Messy",
Guan Hu himself raised money everywhere and got more than 200,000 yuan to shoot.
Whether it looks good or not, at least he did not rely on Lao Tzu's name at that time.
The more she learned more, the more Liang Jing liked this person.
At that time, Liang Jing called him a "bastard man" in her heart.
At the end of the day, a group of people in the crew went for a drink.
Taking advantage of the wine, Liang Jing asked: "After so many years, do you not give up the pursuit of art films, what do you want?" ”
These words, and Liang Jing, who was grinning greatly, dared to say them.
But others at the scene still felt that the atmosphere was somewhat awkward.
Some people began to persuade the wine, and some people changed the subject.
However, Guan Hu did not get angry when he heard it, but instead said something that made Liang Jing fall for it.
You said that the people in our circle, all day long suits and shoes, no matter how badly dressed up,
Drink with the boss, eat and drink, and say something that you don't believe in,
In such a state, anyone who looks at it will feel that it is.
But on the other hand, you go to the construction site to see, go to the hutong mouth to see,
The big brother who tied the steel bar may have thought that the food in the evening canteen might be steamed again.
The pancake stall at the mouth of the hutong, just saw the city management show its head, it is estimated that the sister-in-law pushed the car and scattered the girl.
Looking at the intersection again, an old lady walking with her grandson has to repeatedly drag the children around her, don't step on the
I like this life because of the energy.
It was these words that made Liang Jing have a different view of the sloppyly dressed man in front of her.
In the following shooting, one day she suddenly fell ill.
The fever does not go away, and even the voice is a little distorted.
Liang Jing did not want to drag the crew to stop work because she was alone.
At four o'clock in the morning, she still followed the big guys to the car to the filming location as usual.
But the state of the cold could not be covered, and in the car, Guan Hu said to the assistant director:
"Tell everyone, take a day off today."
"What to rest, isn't it a cold, hold on." Liang Jing did not want to back down.
"Health can make good scenes, you have to listen to me, I'm the director."
"Listen to what to listen to! If you take care of me like this, I will feel even more uncomfortable in my heart, and tell everyone to continue to work. ”
"Hey! I said you girl..."
Guan Hu stared at Liang Jing, and Liang Jing did not dodge, but also looked at Guan Hu.
Seeing that she was so stubborn, she could only continue to work as usual that day.
Just after returning in the evening, Guan Hu came with a thermometer and a bag of cold medicine.
To tell the truth, he had never seen a woman dare to do such a thing with him before.
However, for Liang Jing, after so many days in the crew, the most he saw Guan Hu was his rough side.
And every day I call home and buy medicine for myself,
It still hit the weakest part of the woman's heart.
In this way, with the end of the filming of "Black Hole", Guan Hu also became a tiger in Liang Jing's mouth.
It is really not easy for two people to come together.
However, the personality of the needle tip to Mai Mang was quickly revealed in their bodies.
Guan Hu is a macho.
When I was with Ma Yili, I once looked at the dirty clothes in the house and asked her why she didn't wash them.
Who knew that Ma Yili did not eat his set, and directly asked, why did I wash it?
Guan Hu told her that women can have a job or not, but they must clean up their homes.
But Ma Yili loves to be strong, which became the trigger for the two people to break up later.
After coming together with Liang Jing, the conflict between the two people was directly moved to the surface.
There is a slight discord, no one will let anyone talk, and each other is arching fire.
Once, he provoked Liang Jing again with a single sentence.
When two people were driving, she directly opened the car door and jumped out and left.
Fortunately, the car did not drive fast, but it still scared Guan Hu enough.
After a long time, Guan Hu found Liang Jing.
"You say we're so bitter, it's too inappropriate in personality."
"It's not appropriate, so why are we still together?" Liang Jing continued to arch the fire on the side.
Fortunately, Guan Hu's anger subsided, and he continued to exhort.
"You said we weren't hedgehogs, so why prick each other for a sentence or two?"
Seeing that Liang Jing did not speak, Guan Hu continued:
"They are all together, you can't show weakness, they all say that women are water, I see you are an iceberg."
The latter words made Liang Jing can't help but want to get angry again, but looking at the other party's calm look,
The fire in her heart could not burn.
In this way, under the "tutelage" of Guan Hu, Liang Jing became a smooth donkey beside him.
In turn, Guan Hu, who was originally very macho, also slowly appeared on the other half,
Figured out how to express love.
After such a run-in, over time, there were far fewer scenes of fire in the past.
In the blink of an eye, the two had been together for three years, and Liang Jing wanted to get married.
No matter how hot his temper is, he is also a woman after all.
From his debut as a host in 1994 to that time, it was about ten years.
But during that time, she had just spoken out her thoughts, and Guan Hu played tai chi.
Either change the subject, or simply don't pick up the topic.
He had also revealed to Liang Jing before that he regarded marriage and children as bondage.
Sometimes I get together with a bunch of my peers and see them dragging their children and daughters.
I feel sorry for their kind of life.
Seeing that a frontal assault would not work, Liang Jing decided to take a roundabout measure.
Once on a vacation to the beach, two people happened to see a small child playing in the sand on the beach.
Liang Jing took the opportunity to say to Guan Hu: "If this child is yours and drags you to play with, how will you feel?" ”
After she said this, she ran over to play with the child.
It worked, and since then, his attitude has gradually changed.
In addition, Liang Jing also let a group of friends knock on the side.
Some friends saw Guan Hu and deliberately talked about the risk of advanced maternal age.
Feng Xiaogang was even more damaged, and once he said to Guan Hu,
You are not married now, wait a few years, and go out with your child in your arms.
Others must have said, yo, your grandchildren are so old, it's so good!
The bitter words of his girlfriend and friends finally turned around his "stubborn donkey".
In 2005, Liang Jing and Guan Hu's identities finally became husband and wife.
Neither of them is a person who values form, and there are no weddings and wedding photos.
Bigger changes are yet to come.
Liang Jing found that Guan Hu had completely changed into a person after marriage.
In the past, at home, she would bring him tea and pour water, and sometimes she would put it in a fixed position.
After that, this situation reversed, and it became Guan Hu bringing her tea and pouring water.
Especially when Liang Jing's stomach grew bigger day by day, Guan Hu's changes became even greater.
That day, Liang Jing smelled a smell of garlic stir-fry in her room.
She said in her heart that she and her husband were at home, and he usually did not cook, how could there be a taste of stir-frying.
When she went to the kitchen to take a look, she found that this person who had been particularly disgusted with cooking before,
I'm wearing an apron and I'm busy with a wok in my hand.
It was as if the sun had come out of the west.
That day, Guan Hu brought his wife a scrambled egg with garlic seedlings.
He also told Liang Jing that in the past few months, the stir-fry has been wrapped by himself.
Guan Hu went down to the kitchen, and the word immediately spread among friends.
Huang Bo saw him and asked directly, "Are you stimulated by anything, how did you become the most hated person before?" ”
Who knows Guan Hu also said to him, you are a single dog, what do you know.
Unfortunately, the first pregnancy, and later because of filming, the fetus was miscarried.
After another year or so, the daughters of the two were finally born.
When she became a mother, Liang Jing's motherhood was rampant, and even her husband benefited from it.
No need to do housework, no need to worry about rice oil and salt.
As a result, the husband did not care about anything at all.
Money does not matter, going out to eat together is also the wife to pay the bill.
And some trivial things in life are basically handled by Liang Jing.
So that friends around you are complaining, you are not raising "tigers", this is the rhythm of "raising pigs".
Indeed, this may be Liang Jing's intention.
Enjoying all the care of his wife, he slowly adapted to this rhythm.
Gradually, Guan Hu reached the point where he forgot his mobile phone or key.
I even went to eat hot pot with a bunch of friends a few times,
The smell is too strong, leaving the restaurant for a long time, and there is still a smell on the body.
Guan Hu couldn't help but sigh to his friends, or eat comfortably with your sister-in-law.
When eating, she would put her coat in a plastic bag beforehand so that it would not slip on the clothes.
In this way, Guan Hu was gradually taught by Liang Jing, and when he left his wife, he always felt that life was inconvenient.
Two years later, their son was born again.
At this time, she has left the film and television circle is not short, thinking that the child is gradually growing up, and it is time to take over the role.
A year later, her husband filmed the movie "Killing".
One of the female characters is not only ugly but also tough.
Unfortunately, the original actor did not come in the end, seeing that it was too troublesome to find someone again, Liang Jing said that she tried.
Before filming, not to say that it is a small fresh, good villain will not break the picture,
But the contrast in this role is so great that the husband hesitates.
However, Liang Jing eventually starred.
To the surprise of the couple, with this role, she won the best female match in the Golden Horse.
After that, the couple continued to cooperate, and as long as the role was appropriate, she would definitely appear in her husband's play.
In the blink of an eye, she and Guan Hu had been married for more than fifteen years.
In the past, Guan Hu and his friends gathered, often not drunk and did not return.
Since the birth of his children, every time he goes out to eat, he has become pinching time.
Even my friends couldn't believe it at first, was this still the Guan Hu they knew before?
However, in Liang Jing's view, it is her seemingly "herding" to her husband.
In fact, he was completely adapted to the new rhythm of life,
In the end, even the husband himself could not go back to the past.
In addition to closing the husband's heart, for many years in the eyes of his wife, he was actually a person with willpower.
At home, every morning the five-kilometer husband thundered.
He told Liang Jing that no matter what he did, the body was the capital of everything.
Even if you have a good idea, if the body can't keep up, it's useless.
In recent years, because the epidemic has rarely started work, the life of a family of four has become more regular.
The husband runs without moving, mainly reading and writing every day.
Liang Jing herself accompanies the child to exercise, and another main task is to tutor the child's online lessons and homework.
Life is regular, and the understanding between her and her husband is more tacit.
When she encountered some of the children's courses, the husband was good at it, and she asked her husband to explain them to the children.
Sometimes, he doesn't know how to explain it to his children in a popular way.
When there are some questions, the child will still run to her and ask her.
It is rare for a family to get together, the warmth between husband and wife,
Now it is gradually flowing to the children.
Text | twenty-two
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