A Harvard University study showed that in the process of children's growth, IQ only plays a role in about 1/5 of the impact, and what really opens up the gap between children is not IQ, but habits. To cultivate children's good habits, you need to make full use of spare time, and the holidays are the golden period for cultivating children's habits.
Here are 8 practical suggestions for parents and children, I hope that in this holiday, children can make great progress in learning, life and other aspects!
1
The habit of reading The ability to read is the basis of all other abilities, and the ability to read is equivalent to the child's intelligence. Usually in class, children are busy learning, take advantage of the holiday, we must let children read well, love to read. Cultivating children's reading habits must rely on long-term persistence and the companionship and guidance of parents. suggestion:
1, choose a wonderful novel for your child, just need to accompany him through the transition period of the first few chapters, he will be attracted by the plot, hands do not release the volume. 2. Create an exclusive reading space for children, guide children to clean up and love books, and slowly he will have a sense of attachment to books. 3. Usually, when you have time, you can accompany your child to read, discuss the story in the book together, or let the child tell your own experience.
2
Some people say that every wasted vacation is a slide to a mediocre life! The winter vacation is long, parents can not let their children be lazy, not learning, addicted to games, every day should be full. Cultivate the habit of making plans from an early age, and when he grows up, he also has the ability to plan his own life. Suggestions: 1. Let the child list the important things to be completed during the winter vacation (such as tutoring Chinese, learning a specialty, etc.), and then allocate the time required to complete these tasks. 2. Let the child plan every day, list the things that must be completed today (such as how many pages of homework to do, how long to read, etc.), and tick them one by one after completing the task. 3. Let the child learn to make plans and strategies, such as what route the family should take when going out to play, what projects to participate in, etc., to train the child's planning ability.
3
The habit of morning reading, Nan Huaijin, said: "Only those who can control the morning can control life." "Entering the holidays, children love to sleep late. Parents should not condone it, but encourage their children to get up early and read in the morning. With enough reading, children also have enough knowledge reserves in their brains and are more comfortable in learning. Suggestions: 1, parents should lead by example, set a good example for their children, the whole family gets up early together, and let the children develop habits through long-term supervision. 2, morning reading content does not have to be rigid, you can read the text, you can read the model text, you can also read the concept of formulas, read more children will remember. 3, the morning reading time should not be too long, the content should not be too much, adhere to half an hour a day, which is very helpful for improving the child's brain thinking ability.
4
During the winter vacation, children cannot forget to learn, let alone forget to prepare. By preparing for the new lesson in advance, children can process a part of the knowledge in advance and be mentally prepared to enter the new semester. Preparation is not just a matter of looking at the textbook, parents should teach their children some preparation methods. Suggestions: 1. Let the child read through the textbook, try to understand the content of the text, find out the places that do not understand, mark them, check the reference book to solve or ask the teacher to explain after the school starts. 2. Reasonably arrange the child's preparatory time, preferably at the end of the day' study, about half an hour a day. 3. Parents should collect relevant teaching materials and materials for their children, and also do a good job of supervision, taking it as one of their children's learning tasks.
5
Efficient habits this winter vacation, get rid of the child's bad habit of laziness and procrastination, and don't indulge him to delay his homework until the last day. The golden year does not come again, and it is difficult to get another morning. Cultivating the efficient habit of "finishing today's events today" is the result of long-term parental restraint and discipline. Suggestions: 1, let the child practice words, or learn to draw, etc., exercise his ability to focus on one thing for a long time. 2. Stipulate that the child completes something within half an hour, rewards him after success, and then shortens the time a little bit to improve the efficiency of the child's work. 3, once the child rubs, parents should stop and punish in time, let the child bear the consequences, do not dare to repeat the crime.
6
Confucius said: "Learning from the past can be a teacher." "During the winter vacation, children should review more knowledge they have learned and do a good job of connecting new and old knowledge." The month-long winter vacation is the key node for children to check and fill in the gaps, change from weak to strong, and make good use of the holiday to help children catch up. Suggestions: 1. In addition to completing homework, let the children check and fill in the gaps in the knowledge of the previous semester, consolidate the foundation, refine the knowledge points, and build a knowledge framework. 2. Guide children to collect wrong questions, fill in knowledge loopholes, and often take the wrong question books out to review and redo. 3, can not let the child play uncontrollably, we must grasp the time of children's learning and leisure and entertainment, to achieve the combination of work and leisure.
7
The Ministry of Education has issued a document proposing that the working hours of the first and second grades of primary schools should not be less than 2 hours per week, and the other grades should not be less than 3 hours. Life is education, so that children do housework from an early age, which is one of the important contents of family education. Children who do housework from an early age have obviously stronger independent ability, self-care ability, and hands-on ability than their peers. Suggestions: 1, according to the age of the child to arrange housework, such as 7 to 9 years old children can do their own laundry, tidy up the room, etc., 9 to 12 years old children can learn to cook, organize family gatherings, etc. 2, let the child choose the housework they want to do, parents should recognize and encourage more, do not always be picky about faults. 3. Accompany the child to do housework together, let the family have more cooperation and laughter, and cultivate the child's responsibility and sense of responsibility.
8
The habit of exercise is now generally poor in children's physical fitness, and strengthening physical exercise should be put on the agenda as soon as possible. Children who insist on winter exercise will have 8-10 times the cold resistance of ordinary people. Therefore, parents should not only focus on improving their children's grades, but ignore the importance of sports for their children. Suggestions: 1, try a few more exercises, see which one the child likes, and then make an exercise plan according to the child's physical condition. 2, let the child punch the clock after exercising every day, and reward the child when a certain number of days is met, so that he is willing to stick to it. 3, parents should also participate in it, accompany their children to exercise for an hour every day, and parents who love sports will also cultivate children who love sports. - Written at the end - The American psychologist William James once said: "Sow an action, harvest a habit; sow a habit, harvest a character; sow a character, harvest a destiny." The primary school stage is the "critical period" of education, and cultivating children's behavior habits at this age is the most effective. This winter vacation, let us pay attention to the cultivation of children's habits and help children develop better and better in the future.