Recently, the epidemic situation has been repeated in many places
Many students adjust to
Learn from home
Or have already started winter vacation life
The amount of time parents and children spend together has increased dramatically
The family becomes the child
The main place of study and living
Whether the parent-child relationship is harmonious
It directly affects the physical and mental growth of children
and the happiness of family life
The following 10 groups of small comics, compared with some of the practices that children do not like and like parents, look at the comparison, maybe you will have a deeper feeling of "how to be a parent"!
01
accompany
As a parent
Are you willing to spend time for your children?
Do you put time outside of work
Are they all spent on mobile phones and shopping?
The pandemic has slowed down the pace of life
Let us accompany our children with our hearts
Kids don't want much
Do some with your child
The things they like are enough
Companionship is the most affectionate confession to children
02
praise
The child scored 80 points
What would you do?
Say the child is taking luck this time?
Complaining about why the child didn't get 90 points?
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When they improve, please give praise in time
This can not only help children build up their self-confidence
It can also enhance the parent-child relationship between you!
03
hearken
Every child desires in his heart
Parents' patience to listen
Instead of gross interference
When you give your child enough space and respect
They will all be willing to listen
Suggestions and requests for help for them!
04
exercise
Why do you give a lot and the child does not appreciate it?
Because the life that is arranged will be boring!
Children will slowly hate
It's hard to appreciate and be grateful
It's better to let go at the right time
Let the child choose for himself
05
Care
No one is being blamed and criticized
You can also get things done!
Children are willing to get things done
It's because I feel loved and understood!
06
respect
The child is just through you
Come into this world
To fulfill your mission and dreams
They don't belong to you
It's also not up to you
Your task
It is to help the child achieve himself
Remember: the greatest love is respect for children!
07
Acceptance
There is a kind of harm
It's called "Somebody Else's Child."
Each flower has its own season of opening
Children's growth is also fast and slow
We must respect the rhythm of children's growth
Give them enough acceptance and support!!
08
face
You are in love with children
Or do you love your face more?
Many parents unconsciously
Just make your child your own
A channel and tool to realize your dreams!
They are not treated as truly independent individuals
Nor did it take into account the needs and voices of the child
09
Trustworthy
Children learn through imitation
Instead of "listening to your parents" to learn
To change the child
Change yourself first
If you want to raise an honest and trustworthy child
Be sure to be a "do what you say" parent first
10
Family atmosphere
Remember: it really affects the child
It's the parents' own state of life!
Parents first live their lives well
Children will naturally grow into a happy person
love
In fact, it is your gentle eyes
Warm embrace
Powerful hands
Dedicated companionship...