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In the winter vacation, parents and children began to get along with each other every day, doing exercise books and writing homework, which is a "problem" that cannot be avoided during the holiday, and the mother's kindness and filial piety and "chicken flying dog jumping" are separated by a homework book.
If your child also likes to procrastinate and rub and rub when writing homework, in addition to the problem can not be done, perhaps the child's concentration also needs to be improved.
What's wrong with writing homework too much?
How hard is it to write homework? A mom photographed the long prelude to her son's homework.
First of all, you have to feel the wall to find the rhythm of writing homework, then don't forget to train your upper limb strength, and then you have to do a full-body stretching exercise, and finally you can practice writing homework.
These four steps are over, and the homework can be gradually and slowly opened.
Don't think that boys will have such a hard time writing homework, and girls will have enough for their mothers.
Another mother complained that her daughter drank water eight times in the half hour of writing, probably drinking too much water, so she went to the toilet seven times interspersed...
This frequency really makes the mother's anger to a bitter smile, in order to counter the frequent activities of her daughter, she made a big move, filled the floor of her daughter's room with eggs, surrounded her daughter with an "egg array", and then moved the egg will shatter.
This trick has attracted onlookers and likes from netizens, but I don't know if I can really cure my daughter's problem of writing homework.
Why does the child have to do half a day's worth of homework that can be completed in half an hour? I think this is the soul torture of many parents, in fact, the answer is very simple, that is, the child's concentration is not enough.
As we all know, concentration is largely innate, and children in infancy and toddlers can meet things they like to explore for half a day at night, so why do they regress when they grow up?
What destroys a child's concentration?
Studies have shown that children in primary school can generally focus on one thing for no more than half an hour at a time, but if children can't concentrate for even 30 minutes, there is a problem.
In fact, most of the children's concentration is destroyed by the parents themselves. Yes, you read that right, please check yourself if you have made the following three mistakes in your life.
In the process of the child's focus, unconsciously "stop"
For example, when children do handicrafts or other games, parents are accompanied and always want to guide one or two.
When the child failed to assemble the toy twice or three times, the parents began to teach by hand, not knowing that the parents interrupted the child's thinking and eliminated the child's concentration.
When children study or play on their own, parents always schedule tasks for them on an ad hoc basis
When children are reading books or playing games, parents always inadvertently call out their children's names and ask them to help open a door, find something, and so on.
In order to complete these temporary tasks, the child has to withdraw from the things he is focused on, and then try to continue the previous thinking, which is actually very difficult.
The wrong way to educate
In order to improve the level of their children's brain development, some parents use a dual-purpose or multi-purpose education method. For example, let the child listen to English while writing homework, and do oral calculations while doing manual work.
The result of practicing back and forth is that children can't do any one thing well, and the things they were originally good at will become worse and worse.
Science can help children improve their concentration
Parents should beware of the above educational misunderstandings, but also to rationally look at the problem of children's concentration improvement, scientific policy can be more effective with half the effort.
First, set small goals for your child
Why do many children play games very engaged, but not write homework or study?
Because there are many small goals in the game to attract children, success can be rewarded, and failure can start all over again.
Parents can learn from the cultivation of children's concentration, set many visible small goals for children in learning, so that children can often taste the taste of success and get due encouragement.
Second, set the appropriate learning difficulty for the child
When parents help their children choose learning content, they should choose slightly more difficult content according to the child's mastery of existing knowledge, which can not only stimulate children's interest, but also allow them to solve problems through certain efforts and gain a sense of achievement.
Finally, reduce interruptions
When children are learning, parents try not to supervise from the side to reduce the pressure of their learning. It is recommended to replace it with invisible supervision, such as setting an alarm clock or hourglass, so that the child can feel that time is passing.
Wait until the child has finished a unit of the topic and then check it uniformly, so that the child also has a process of absorption and understanding, and the thinking is coherent.
Dad's Message:
The most important point needs to remind parents that when the child is concentrating on something at home, parents should try to accompany them as quietly as possible, playing mobile phones and watching TV will distract the child's attention and distract their interest in their own things.
To get a child to focus, parents first demonstrate how to focus on something and enjoy the process of focusing.