People often say: "High IQ is not as good as good character", a lively and cheerful person, easy to be accepted by everyone, the scope of communication activities is more extensive, and the possibility of leading to the road of life is also more.
Children are the most precious gifts from Heaven to their parents, small they are born with their own aura, mothers hope that children can have a good character, in the future to make themselves happy, but also to make others happy. We all know that "character determines destiny", but what determines the character of a child? From a psychological point of view, the parent-child relationship encountered by the child in childhood will be internalized into the child's heart to become an internal relationship model, and this set of internal relationship patterns will form the child's personality. Therefore, a child's good character is inseparable from a good parent-child relationship.
Parental love makes children more sunny
Home and everything, a harmonious parent-child relationship should not only communicate and interact with children, but also deal with the relationship between husband and wife. Parents' joys and sorrows will directly affect the child, the parents' loving family may not be able to provide a superior material life for the child, but it can keep the child's optimistic and stable mentality, and the child's personality is more sunny.
Playing together makes children more active
Love to play is the nature of children, to establish a close parent-child relationship requires parents to accompany children to play together, so that children can fully feel the closeness and love of parents in the process of playing.
With the deepening of the parent-child relationship, children will have greater courage and more positive emotions to contact the external environment, and gradually form a cheerful and optimistic quality.
The affirmation of parents makes children more confident
Self-confidence comes from self-esteem. A person must first have self-esteem, and then he will be confident. Want to establish a good parent-child relationship, parents should be good at finding the child's strengths and strengths, praise him in time, help the child establish a positive self-awareness, the child has shortcomings, do not blame the child at will, but encourage him to overcome his shortcomings step by step.
Respecting a child's hobbies makes him happier
Children's happiness comes from all aspects, and if there is only one hobby, it is difficult to maintain long-term happiness. Parents who want to establish a warm parent-child relationship with their children should learn to start from the child's wishes, respect his choices, and let him do what he likes, rather than sending his children to various interest classes according to his own preferences. In this way, it can enrich the child's life and make the child truly feel happy.
Through communication and interaction with children, establishing a close and warm parent-child relationship can help children develop a good character and help children better cope with setbacks and pressures in future life.