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Childhood injuries, the body remembers

A few days ago, Ms. Wei recounted to the media a scene of encounters on the subway. On Line 7 of the Beijing subway, there was a woman and a child sitting opposite Ms. Wei, the child was originally sitting on a chair playing with his mobile phone, and the woman next to him first pinched the child's face, and the mask was pulled down. The child silently put on the mask, and the woman knocked off the child's hat and snatched the child's mobile phone. Then she threw the child's school bag on the ground and made the child kneel. Some passengers dissuaded her, and the woman said with a straight face: "My own children can manage as much as they want." In this way, the child knelt on the ground in front of everyone, and after arriving at the station, the woman quickly stepped out of the carriage, and the child also quickly picked up the bag and chased it out. I don't know what the child has done wrong, but the child also has self-esteem, and it is not appropriate to beat the child in public and let the child kneel. Ms. Wei said angrily and bitterly. Maybe it's the mother who stops her child from playing with her mobile phone, teaches her repeatedly, and can't help but do it; maybe such a scene has been staged many times in life, and both mother and son have become accustomed to it. In a family, the emotions of adults and children interact with each other. Grumpy parents, most of them will have children who are used to being patient. Many people know that repressed bad emotions will become a disease of the body, so what if it is the child who suppresses emotions? If a person suffers violent education methods and emotional neglect in childhood, and because of their own weakness and inability to resist, all anger, grievances, and repression in their hearts will not pose a harm to their bodies?

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