Today, the population situation on the mainland can be said to be very grim. In such a situation, the situation of women marrying out of the country is particularly worthy of our vigilance, and the loss of a large number of women is actually of little benefit to our country.
Some people may think that this is the freedom of others, and others should not point fingers. In fact, such an idea is debatable.
Let's take an analogy that our excellent students study abroad and stay in foreign countries, which is also their freedom.
But too much brain drain, which is not good for the future development and competitiveness of our country.
By the same token, if a large number of women are lost, our demographic situation will only worsen, which will not be of any benefit to all of us.
An extremely strange phenomenon, these women who marry foreigners, nine times out of ten, are very virtuous, very good to foreign husbands, and they are cooking soup for them, and they are doing housework, in short, they are standard good wives and good mothers.
Some would argue that this is because these foreigners are of high quality and worth their efforts; or that women who can marry foreigners are of considerable quality.
If placed more than a decade ago, such two statements may still have a certain market, and they can still fool many people.
But today, all kinds of information have been very developed, and it would be too ignorant to say such a thing.
As far as the author knows, among the elites of foreigners, few people will marry Chinese women, because there will be endless troubles and troubles, after all, the language barrier, the culture is far apart, and it can even be said that it comes from two completely different dimensions, and it is impossible to think of a piece, which is the so-called "wind and horses and cattle are not compatible"
Foreign men who are willing to marry Chinese women basically cannot marry excellent women of their own ethnic group, so they use the psychology of our countrymen to marry a Chinese woman to serve themselves.
With the rise of women's boxing in the mainland, many women have been brainwashed, and they have actually believed in the fallacious heresy that "Chinese men are not worthy of Chinese women", a considerable number of women have taken too much of their male compatriots, and a small number of women have thrown themselves into the arms of foreigners.
(Women who marry Africa and live a very miserable life)
And this is the fundamental reason why some women marry foreigners.
So why are these women who marry foreigners basically good wives and mothers?
The reason is actually very simple, first of all, foreigners do not attach so much importance to marriage.
In our country, due to the influence of traditional culture, despite the high idea of female boxing and the high cost of marriage, there are still many men who are willing to pay for cars, houses and expensive bride price to get married.
Because of this, marriage is very important for men, because they give too much. For women, they often take every kind of flattery.
We often see videos of men hiding money and kneeling to their wives in some short videos, which is actually a manifestation of the low status of men on the mainland.
We will also see some son-in-law novels in some online novels, which are about men who are very angry in their daily lives, and suddenly one day get a lot of wealth, and then turn around in front of their wives and mothers-in-law.
The more popular such novels are, the more deflating the situation is, and the more it shows the low status of mainland men.
(The hotter such film and television dramas and novels are, the more it shows that the status of men in the mainland is underground)
According to a data report, more than 70% of divorce cases in the mainland are filed by women.
But such a situation will not appear in foreign countries, because foreigners cannot give and demand like Chinese men, and they do not have the slightest fear of divorce.
And many of these women who marry foreigners are extremely admirable, they marry foreigners, nothing more than thinking of showing off, if divorced, for them, it is a very faceless thing.
In fact, foreign men are not so precious to mainland women, and we also have many female celebrities and female hosts who have married foreigners, but in the end they all ended in divorce.
Because they are public figures, this is what we know. And their economic strength also determines that they will not bend the curve.
(Chen Luyu and her foreign husband, basically married to a female star of foreigners, eventually ended in divorce)
But most of the women who marry out of the house, even if they are really divorced, because they don't have visibility, we can't see it, because they won't publicize it in a big way.
So what we see are all married women who seem very happy.
Secondly, when they marry overseas, they do not have any means of livelihood or any way out, and they can only seek perfection.
Many women always think that foreigners have a fairly high income and can give themselves a good life.
However, when I married into a foreign country, I realized that my husband was just a middle- and low-level ordinary person, and the pressure of life was also very high.
So these women also have to come out to work to earn money to subsidize the family.
But they don't speak the language, and their culture and customs are not compatible with the local area, so in such a situation, it is basically very difficult for them to find a good job.
Generally speaking, if we compatriots who really have some skills can find a good job in a foreign country, they will not shoot videos of cooking and doing housework like that, because it is not as good as chasing drama and sleeping when they have that time, so why do they have to do such a thankless thing?
But these women don't have that ability, they need to make money, but they can't find suitable jobs in foreign countries.
As a result, they can only take advantage of the psychology of some people in our country to take some videos of cooking and feeding foreigners to eat, so as to earn a certain amount of traffic.
If you do it well and have a certain reputation, in addition to earning a certain amount of traffic fees, you can also bring goods in the country or something.
(Videos of this abound, arguably the "wealth code" of some people.)
As far as the author knows, these women who look down on their male compatriots, if they marry their compatriots, will not only ask for a lot of money, but they will not usually do housework, after all, people are noble "little fairies".
But why did he suddenly become so virtuous after marrying a foreigner, not only did he not want a bride price, but he would also cook himself and play a good wife and mother?
The reason is nothing more than for his own face, but also for the sake of making some money, nothing more.
As for the happy looks they show, I am afraid that most people are not sincere, but more of a helplessness!
(Alas, why bother?) ）
However, it is a pity that their helplessness continues to fool more people, and many women have the urge to marry foreigners.
I have to say that this is indeed a rather regrettable thing.